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Malaya, 39
United States, Oklahoma, Poteau

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About Me

Independent, optimistic, professional, single mother seeking someone who wants to laugh and have fun while getting to know one another and ultimately desires a long-term relationship. I spent way too much time waiting for life to happen, and when I became single again, I promised myself to take advantage of every opportunity life has to offer. My bucket list is long, so I had to split it into 2 lists......things I want to do, and places I want to go. I just crossed off "; and "getting my concealed weapons permit". I just bought a motorcycle and take my riding class in November, so I'm looking forward to joining some group rides and crossing off "learn to ride a motorcycle". My travel list includes climbing Mt. I enjoy spontaneous road trips, travel, concerts and live performances, the beach, dancing, laughing, watching my son play baseball, trail riding, and exploring nature. I'm really getting into Salsa dancing, and would enjoy finding a good dance partner! I'm also open to trying just about anything else at least once with good company. I have a standing date with my son for his 18th birthday to go skydiving. I work out 3 to 4 days a week and tend to eat fairly healthy, although I believe that everything in moderation is key. I enjoy a wide range of music, but tend to listen to country the most and also enjoy line dancing and 2-step. I'm the kind of girl who can play hard and get dirty during the day, but likes to dress up and put my heels on for a night on the town. While I strive to live life to the fullest, I still enjoy a quiet night at home snuggling and watching a movie. I can take care of myself, but love the feeling of being taken care of by a strong, capable man sometimes. I believe in chemistry and that kissing, cuddling, and passion are essential! If we sound like a match, send me a message! Namaste! Something laid back and easy-going, or a fun activity. I'm not picky.....surprise me! ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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