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Lydia, 37
United States, Oklahoma, Poteau

Offline, last seen Mon, 18 May 2026 18:08:15

About Me

Well I tried this "online" thing once before and definitely did not have a fairy tale ending! Actually more like an episode of Dateline! Ultimately I am looking for a long term relationship but for now just want to get to know someone and see where it goes...finding a friend is just fine. PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF YOU ARE JUST LOOKING FOR A "HOOK UP" OR "SEXTING"...sorry...just not interested! I assure you I do not need to look for the idiots that want that...they are EVERYWHERE! Also if you are married or in a relationship YOU HAVE NO BUSINESS ON THIS SITE leave my profile NOW LOSER! It has come to my attention that I should add this as well! If you have profile pictures taken in public restrooms we probably won't be compatible...I am really tired of meeting people who tell me the things I want to hear *** the truth. I respect someone who has integrity. I am usually up for just about anything within reason! I am not easily offended by a dirty joke and love a little sarcasm! I am pretty high strung and opinionated...could be why I am single...who knows?!I long for that weak in the knee, heart racing, hanging on every word, can't stand to be away from you feeling! I believe it is out there and won't settle until I find it! Even though I have set up an online dating site I am still pretty old fashioned about dating and want to be pursued (like every girl does)...so that means don't wait on a message from me...send me a message if you want to get to know me better! I would definitely need the first date to be in a public place so as to avoid anyone who might be planning on making a suit of my skin.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rock Indonesian Japanese South American Sci-Fi Snowboarding Soccer / Football
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