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Maud, 40
United States, Oklahoma, Pauls Valley

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About Me

Hi, I hope this finds you well as you read this. My personal world for the past two years got entirely taken over by professional development. I have my career/business that is expanding (and therefore the need to learn more systems to maintain the growth) as well as a side business that truly was my "million dollar idea." As a result of my complete dedication to the advancement of these two things, my personal life kind of took a hit. Thusly, not engaging in my hobbies... that is until recently. I'm swinging the pendulum back into restoring the all too evasive balance. So getting back into skating has been extra fun, rolling out my mat is like a giant exhale, i still have my "homework" about the veritable chess game I'm playing with myself in the advancement of my career, but this time somehow, I'm being inclusive and creating more ~time~ for the unexpected, which could be you!I'm not going to do a blanket share as to what my goals and aspirations are in this form; I'll leave it to more one on one conversation. But know this: I have plenty; they are big; my work ethic is insane; and technically I've already achieved my goals and so as a result I keep expanding them outward. The matrix of qualities that surmounts to me being me is a mixture of deep empathy - I am in healing work after all, but also a very effective communicator, strength in holding boundaries, super serious if I need to be, but really only as long as I need to be because I much prefer to be silly with an edge of intellectually witty bite. And don't think that ridiculous run on sentence does not/did not go unnoticed. I also like to come up with my own rules and so feel as though that sentence is ultimately fine to remain as is. Here's a big clue into my sense of humor. Cards Against Humanity. My hilarious game ever. Just think Apples To Apples on roids.I can be wickedly competitive in the right situation, but then other times I will just walk away regardless of winning. I'm situational that way I guess. I think that if the competition if based on solid skill and or strategy I am much more drawn to engaging. Music wise - right now it's a bit more of a back burner priority, although I have had a strong history of music shaping chapters and phases of my life. The soulful and acoustic feels right. But in the car, these days it's a battle between listening to NPR (my choice) vs. We've crushed Wicked and Annie and have now moved on to Beauty and the Beast and The Lion King. Not really specific about what it is we are doing, but I know a really good first date is when the conversation is effortless, never ending and afterward, I can't exactly remember what he looks like.Or a game night with group of people. Laughter is key.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Disco Jazz Canadian Indonesian Adult
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  • Sanjuanita from Pauls Valley | Woman | 39 years old | Virgo
    Sanjuanita

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I was on here before.....here we go again. I like to sew, I like to decorate my home. When the weather allows, my daughter and I love going to the pool and going to water parks. Of course I don't get to do things I love all the time being a single mom, working full time. I love animals. I have a Mastiff and 3 cats. I listen to all kinds of music. Although I don't really care for the winter. I would very much prefer a beach. That just isn't in the cards right now. If you have a motorcycle, I like to ride. I am down to earth. I am definitely a jeans and t-shirt type person, although I can't wear that to work. I prefer not to date somebody younger than myself. Apparently I should have clarified, about age, I am very soon turning 40. I would like to meet somebody between 38 and 45. No need to message me if you are in your 20's or early 30's. Don't mean to be rude, just being honest. And to a certain extent, looks do matter. I certainly don't mean you have to look like a model, but if you look like a slob, that doesn't work for me. I was married once. I was married for a long time, and dating is quite strange to me. Here is what I do know, and maybe this is harsh. If you are not genuine in your intentions of dating and the possibility of seeing where things go, move on. Honesty and communication are highly important to me. If you don't agree, move on. If your intentions are strictly sexual, I am not for you. Being affectionate and caring is a must. Nothing happens fast, but I hope to find somebody eventually that is done with games and drama. Somebody who does eventually want to settle down. By settle down, I mean find that one somebody, not marriage. I will never marry again. Loyalty is important, if it isn't to you, don't waste my time or yours. Also, it is important you have your own life together. I have mine together, and have no intention of dealing with somebody that isn't stable in all aspects. Whatever we would decide.

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  • Jelissa from Pauls Valley | Woman | 40 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Love musis..all kinds they type of music I listen to often depends on my moods. Probably most of all a country girl..country musics tells stories and I love a good story. I am a child of the 80's you know I have to be a supporter. I love the classic stuff, it takes me back to a time in my life where nothing mattered but the moment you were in. It's the second thing I turn on after I wake up, coffee pot of coarse the first. I love soft relaxing music just before I go to bed..well unless sleeping is the last thing I have on my mind when I am in bed...;)I am a bright beautiful woman, I have been thru hell, (well them havent we all in one way or another) but what i find most amazing about the human spirit is how resilent it is...at least mine anyways...I believe in love and happiness...dont know if everyone has a soulmate..God knows I havent found mine yet.....I have a postive outlook on life and am greatful for the chance to keep looking. I love to give but only as good as I get...I fall hard...but am very loyal. I have children and they are important to me, and my wish is that they would be to you as well...(I believe that being a "step parent" is one of the most important and honorable jobs out there....and i would take that responsebiltiy very seriously if the need be)As far as being unique, arent we all.....but as far as be...I think I am funny, cute, sharp and quick witted. I am creative and helpful, and a romantic at heart....i think if I had to chose one thing that I have lacked in the last relationship is romance..i can give but havent had much experience getting it...so keep that in mind.....Well I could go on and on..what woman cant right...but I think I d like to do that over a drink or two...with some soft music playing in the back ground...until them be well! sorry now pictures but if you are dying to see my pics..they are on my *** levengood dry ) talk to you soon...Newest biggest pet pieve identified........if you want to come say hi..please do..I am cool with that but if you are really interested and take the effort to stop by please have a bit more things to say other then.... hi.....Obviously your found me intriging and delightful....lol....just give me a bit more to show me you care to know a bit more.... well..I stongly believe that you can learn different things about the same person, depending on the environment! But for me I think a nice quiet place, music playing a drink or two (to take the edge off) to start off with. I believe chemistry is important and is a good place to start, if we can sit for hours just looking, laughing and learning about each other, then everything else, is like a walk in a park. ( which is always a great way to spend the first date as well) I have always enjoyed first dates since I have been back in the dating scene again. Once I have started to look at them as an oppurtunity to learn about someone one new, their life expereinces and not as a test of which one passess or fails, they have been fun worth the effort placed in them to make them happen...so bring on the butterflies!Newest biggest pet pieve identified........if you want to come say hi..please do..I am cool with that but if you are really interested and take the effort to stop by please have a bit more things to say other then hi.....Obvioulsy your found me intriging and delightful....lol...just give me a bit more to show me you care to know a bit more....

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  • Carman from Pauls Valley | Woman | 39 years old | Libra
    Carman

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I would describe myself as funny and fun-loving. I love kids and animals. I like to be outdoors. I\'m looking to find a perons who adds to my life. I don\'t want to change you but accept you as you are.

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