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Maud, 40
United States, Oklahoma, Pauls Valley

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About Me

Hi, I hope this finds you well as you read this. My personal world for the past two years got entirely taken over by professional development. I have my career/business that is expanding (and therefore the need to learn more systems to maintain the growth) as well as a side business that truly was my "million dollar idea." As a result of my complete dedication to the advancement of these two things, my personal life kind of took a hit. Thusly, not engaging in my hobbies... that is until recently. I'm swinging the pendulum back into restoring the all too evasive balance. So getting back into skating has been extra fun, rolling out my mat is like a giant exhale, i still have my "homework" about the veritable chess game I'm playing with myself in the advancement of my career, but this time somehow, I'm being inclusive and creating more ~time~ for the unexpected, which could be you!I'm not going to do a blanket share as to what my goals and aspirations are in this form; I'll leave it to more one on one conversation. But know this: I have plenty; they are big; my work ethic is insane; and technically I've already achieved my goals and so as a result I keep expanding them outward. The matrix of qualities that surmounts to me being me is a mixture of deep empathy - I am in healing work after all, but also a very effective communicator, strength in holding boundaries, super serious if I need to be, but really only as long as I need to be because I much prefer to be silly with an edge of intellectually witty bite. And don't think that ridiculous run on sentence does not/did not go unnoticed. I also like to come up with my own rules and so feel as though that sentence is ultimately fine to remain as is. Here's a big clue into my sense of humor. Cards Against Humanity. My hilarious game ever. Just think Apples To Apples on roids.I can be wickedly competitive in the right situation, but then other times I will just walk away regardless of winning. I'm situational that way I guess. I think that if the competition if based on solid skill and or strategy I am much more drawn to engaging. Music wise - right now it's a bit more of a back burner priority, although I have had a strong history of music shaping chapters and phases of my life. The soulful and acoustic feels right. But in the car, these days it's a battle between listening to NPR (my choice) vs. We've crushed Wicked and Annie and have now moved on to Beauty and the Beast and The Lion King. Not really specific about what it is we are doing, but I know a really good first date is when the conversation is effortless, never ending and afterward, I can't exactly remember what he looks like.Or a game night with group of people. Laughter is key.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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