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Sanjuanita, 39
United States, Oklahoma, Pauls Valley

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About Me

I was on here before.....here we go again. I like to sew, I like to decorate my home. When the weather allows, my daughter and I love going to the pool and going to water parks. Of course I don't get to do things I love all the time being a single mom, working full time. I love animals. I have a Mastiff and 3 cats. I listen to all kinds of music. Although I don't really care for the winter. I would very much prefer a beach. That just isn't in the cards right now. If you have a motorcycle, I like to ride. I am down to earth. I am definitely a jeans and t-shirt type person, although I can't wear that to work. I prefer not to date somebody younger than myself. Apparently I should have clarified, about age, I am very soon turning 40. I would like to meet somebody between 38 and 45. No need to message me if you are in your 20's or early 30's. Don't mean to be rude, just being honest. And to a certain extent, looks do matter. I certainly don't mean you have to look like a model, but if you look like a slob, that doesn't work for me. I was married once. I was married for a long time, and dating is quite strange to me. Here is what I do know, and maybe this is harsh. If you are not genuine in your intentions of dating and the possibility of seeing where things go, move on. Honesty and communication are highly important to me. If you don't agree, move on. If your intentions are strictly sexual, I am not for you. Being affectionate and caring is a must. Nothing happens fast, but I hope to find somebody eventually that is done with games and drama. Somebody who does eventually want to settle down. By settle down, I mean find that one somebody, not marriage. I will never marry again. Loyalty is important, if it isn't to you, don't waste my time or yours. Also, it is important you have your own life together. I have mine together, and have no intention of dealing with somebody that isn't stable in all aspects. Whatever we would decide.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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