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Sanjuanita, 39
United States, Oklahoma, Pauls Valley

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About Me

I was on here before.....here we go again. I like to sew, I like to decorate my home. When the weather allows, my daughter and I love going to the pool and going to water parks. Of course I don't get to do things I love all the time being a single mom, working full time. I love animals. I have a Mastiff and 3 cats. I listen to all kinds of music. Although I don't really care for the winter. I would very much prefer a beach. That just isn't in the cards right now. If you have a motorcycle, I like to ride. I am down to earth. I am definitely a jeans and t-shirt type person, although I can't wear that to work. I prefer not to date somebody younger than myself. Apparently I should have clarified, about age, I am very soon turning 40. I would like to meet somebody between 38 and 45. No need to message me if you are in your 20's or early 30's. Don't mean to be rude, just being honest. And to a certain extent, looks do matter. I certainly don't mean you have to look like a model, but if you look like a slob, that doesn't work for me. I was married once. I was married for a long time, and dating is quite strange to me. Here is what I do know, and maybe this is harsh. If you are not genuine in your intentions of dating and the possibility of seeing where things go, move on. Honesty and communication are highly important to me. If you don't agree, move on. If your intentions are strictly sexual, I am not for you. Being affectionate and caring is a must. Nothing happens fast, but I hope to find somebody eventually that is done with games and drama. Somebody who does eventually want to settle down. By settle down, I mean find that one somebody, not marriage. I will never marry again. Loyalty is important, if it isn't to you, don't waste my time or yours. Also, it is important you have your own life together. I have mine together, and have no intention of dealing with somebody that isn't stable in all aspects. Whatever we would decide.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rap Chinese Indian Fantasy History Horror War
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  • Shaunte from Pauls Valley | Woman | 40 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    You know....It's a shame really. Plenty of fish, honestly DOES have as far as I have seen in comparrison too other dates sites out there, the MOST ATTRACTIVE looking men whom SAY they are single and available AND..not tryin too stick a fork up some chicks *&^...and lie about who they say they are and what they want outta being on here etc...HERES MY CONFUSSION...with the men (and Ive talked too hundreds on here I swear) on this site...WHY DONT YOU JUST BE R E A L and honest and UPFRONT and save everyone involved ALOTTA TIME and d r a m a by just sayin it how you REALLY wanna see it go with a broad on here..Im talking too the men WHO JUST WANNA QUICK FIX if ya know what I mean. CALL ME OLD SCHOOL baby...but Im 38, been there done that, had my WILD OATS wore in if you will... use too travel modeling YEARS ago..sang in a blues/soul band and TRAVELED yearsss ago..met THOASANDS of people/men in my life...and trust AM NO ANGEL..but Im also GROWN now, an adult, tired of the bar scene ***!! Oh another thing...too you men that want our "first date" too be at YOUR place? LMAO pick another, cause I aint her, wasnt born yesterday, and dont wanna play "ME TEACHER YOU BAD BAD BOY" either? Its MOMMA'S turn when that times comes with THE RIGHT MAN,, where "I wanna be taught!"Im throwing in the towel gentlemen..I wanna RETIRE..TEACH MEEE!!!!! Okkk?? lol So, if your a man of integrity, walk the walk, and do it with a LITTLE****ness,,,(love that),,littleee,,and hole lotta sex appeal and are a GOOD PARTNER,,affectionate in public, and dont have a bursted ego, where u arent afraid to let it be known from a cross a crowded room,,,,("That ladies with ME").......Get at me please..**OH YAH ALERT TOO ALL "BOYS" WHO WANNA SEND ME MESSAGES on how I shouldnt "catorgorize all you MEN the same...and I sound BRUTAL,,or MEAN...or TOO ROUGH N TOUGH"...(how do I say this NICELY for you..you the "Weak Boys",, Your exactly,,,,who I DONT want wasting my time on here,,,maybe if youd LISTEN TOO WHAT I SAID IN MY PROFILE,,and less time givin your laptops keyboards LOTION TREATMENT,,,youd actually possibly be getting LAID for a change, and realize not ALL women in the world are co-dependent, weak, submissive, and need too be supported and LOVE too play mommy too you!!! An independent, strong, mature, sexy, sensual woman,,who KNOWS how too be a mans EVERYTHING,, if the chemistry is there on each side,,,,is most mens DREAM..as us women just want the same in return....so BACK OFF...walk away...find another too waste messaging...cause I want a REALLL MANNNN BABYYYY lolol Well...I'm quite "simple" to be honest. I don't need a fancy restaurant, or wine with it,,, Kandi's cool with a good burger, and beer!! lol...but what I've NEVER understood, is the "movie first date thing". I'd want to go somewhere where conversation is heard, we can talk, chit chat, get to know if we WANT to spend the next hour together,,,etc lol

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I am a fun loving girl who loves a little adventure.I am divorced and have two beautiful daughters who are my life. Ones 22 which i had very young and youngest is 12 soon to be 13 going into middle school. They are why I wake up every morning. I have a passion for life and fun and need someone who has the same outlook. Been through alot in my life so wanting someone who doesnt take women or relationships and what they have to offer for granted. If you want to know more just ask...... I am up for most anything on a first date. Love to dance and just take life by the horns and go with whatever comes my way.

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  • Dory from Pauls Valley | Woman | 36 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I'm a mom to two witty and charismatic kids. I'm shy at first, but will open up into a fun, sarcastic, passionate person. I'm a simple girl who is just as comfortable in gym clothes as I am in an evening gown. I dont mind "roughing it' or staying in a nice hotel. I'm just looking for someone to share my life with. No drama or head games!! I'm looking for an honest guy who will get me out of my comfort zone every now and again. Someone who will make me laugh and treat me in the way I know I deserve, but who will be treated just as well in return. ;0)I've been to several European countries when I was younger and would love to revisit those places as well as travel to new places. As well as visit more places in the US. I'm a bit of a Neflix and Hulu junkie! I love lots of different types of shows/movies...reality, sci-fi, history, comedy...only thing I'm not really into are westerns. Music, again a little bit of everything; classical, Elvis, Sinatra, 90's rock/grunge.And if things don't work out, just be upfront with me right away! My world will not come to an end, I will not have a mental breakdown and go nuts. I will be fine!***I'm looking for friends first that will eventually lead to a relationship...NOT a one night stand or FWB...I'm also not looking for a pen pal... Am really open to just about anything...drinks, coffee, hiking

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