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Melinda, 38
United States, Oklahoma, Pauls Valley

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About Me

I will supply raw meat and veggies in exchange for a nicely grilled dinner….Knowledge of a wide variety of grilled recipes a plus.~None of this is code for “I really mean I want to have freaky sex with a stranger”. Only those serious grillers need contact me. Unfathomably so...all who apply can not be chosen.I love Summer… so much I want to get drunk off vodka infused watermelon, and fondle and caress it and maybe even grind up against it until we’re both tired and drunk and a little sunburned then possibly pass out to the light of fireflies dancing around us. Bathing Suits, Boats, Beach, Hammocks in the shade, Summer infused mixed drinks! If there’s any way to spend a day better than this, I don’t know what it is. Summer Sports Rock Hard! Winter sports are boring to watch, boring to play, involve lots of layers, and have a high degree of hurt involved. Touch football always ends up tackle. Hockey players wear too many layers to make it interesting for us women folk, if you know what I’m saying. Downhill Skiing while amusing at time also involves too many layers and way to many chances to run into trees and die of massive internal injuries. But summer is all about play or being lazy in the sun! Swimming, volleyball, water skiing. Who doesn’t love the laid back nature of that?! All done in varying forms of dishabille. Rawr!Seriously! This is life, people. Magical, awesome, simple, pure. Brought to you by summer!What are some of your favorite things about the best season ever (summer, of course)?!Top 10 Reasons Why I Would Be Your Best Girlfriend Ever:10. You will see me wearing sexy lingerie more than “comfortable” undies. 9. You won’t hear me nag and complain because I don’t sweat the small stuff. [This applies to Men-Only. Are you still a large toddler? Could be open season on you]8. You will be proud to have me on your arm when we go out in public and your friends will probably be envious. [Dresses, skirts, high heels, makeup, and good hair]7. You will never, ever compete with me. I am a feminine woman, who knows her place as one.6. You will be nicely surprised when I kiss you passionately at unexpected times and in unexpected places. 5. You will never see me roll my eyes at you when you say something, because I will respect you. [This applies to Men-Only. Are you still a large toddler? Could be open season on you]4. You will see my smile far more often than my frown. 3. You will find yourself thinking seriously about my observations on life and current events.2. You won’t be holding my purse at the shoe store. You won’t even BE at the shoe store with me.1. You rarely, if ever, hear these awful words: “I’m not in the mood”. Honorable mentions:*Ability to stand/balance on own two feet, both financially and emotionally, and is able to enjoy time away from you -- while still missing you, of course. *Moderately intelligent: will constantly surprise you and keep you on your toes. Won't get bored. *Lets You Be A Man: lets you be a guy in all your glory, poker night and all. Even bring you and your buddies a couple of beers and make you some of her famous sandwiches.Gets Along With Friends & Family: will not only help your mom in the kitchen, listen to your dad's stories, and hang out with your friends, I will probably even enjoy it. making a real effort to get to know and love the most important people in your life. And won't try to get you to ditch your best buds.** Your Straight teeth and Respectable Employment are a must!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Annemarie from Pauls Valley | Woman | 40 years old | Gemini
    Annemarie

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    What I want and am looking for in a partner/friend: I am looking for someone that truly puts their family and the person they care about as a priority not just say they do. I am looking for someone that puts effort in planning and doing things together in advance, both in the beginning and as the relationship builds, showing respect for my time and yours. I do enjoy time to myself as well and feel it is good to do things separate also, but with balance. I am a normal simple girl, who is looking for a man who knows and understands what integrity, honesty, chivalry, respect of a woman, faithful and someone who is a man of his word ALWAYS, not just sometimes. I am a busy person, but I will always make time for the people in my life I care about and dating and looking for the same. I am being very upfront about my expectations in a partner so I am not wasting anyone’s time and vice versa; no games or chase I won't do it. It takes time for a relationship to grow meaning I am not looking for Mr. Right now, but am looking for someone who will take the time to get to know me and spend time with on as frequently as we can around our life responsiblities of course. I don’t need material things to be happy, it’s the time and sharing that makes me truly happy and will keep me happy, you know doing things with and for each other and with family and friends, I think that is how you get to know someone and what they are truly about. I am looking for someone who would support or even participate in my personal interests, just as I would do for my partner. Family is extremely important to me and my serious partner must share that interest with me, all other interests are negotiable :). Of course I do feel it is important to do one on one things with just my date and doing things that involve our child/children also, I believe in a good balance of both in time. I do not feel or believe that my child should meet someone his Mother is dating until the relationship is more serious. I love my family above all and my job allows me to be there for my family whenever needed. Although this is not a deal breaker, I would probably be more compatible with someone who has children, someone who would accept my child as I would accept theirs or someone who does not have children but open to accepting mine as the full package.I am looking for something that would have a good potential of turning into long term relationship. Thanks for reading and I wish you the best of luck. Feel free to send me a message if you think we may be a good match. Meet for conversation and dinner or a fun activity.

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  • Nolene from Pauls Valley | Woman | 36 years old | Cancer
    Nolene

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am a single woman never been married no kids. I am looking for my partner in crime, someone who can make me laugh even if I have had the worst day in my life.I am looking for my best friend. I have a job that demands alot of my time, so if you are going to have a problem with that then move on.I have a lot of friends that are guys I am not sleeping with any of them but if you are someone that will make me choose between you and them, they will always win that fight. I need a guy who trusts me and isn't the jealous type. I am full committed to the person that I am with, I don't believe in cheating or playing games.I love sports which is one of the reasons that I have a lot of guy friends, I would rather watch football than go shopping. I DON'T DO DRAMA!!! so if you have alot of drama in your life I am not the girl for you. I will add on here that I am NOT looking for a booty call or a fast hook up. So if that is what you are looking for I AM NOT the girl for you and please move on. I know there are girls out there that are like that but you can tell that very easily they are the one's complaining about their many baby daddy's and talking about the club and have half naked pics of themselves very drunk those are the ones that you need to hit up :)***Update I turned a new leaf this year and joined a gym and now go there daily to work out :) I have found that I actually like to sweat. I am trying a new healthy lifestyle and so far it is working well for me. The plus size to this is I am losing weight and getting my sexy back :) I am not sure what i should say here, My first date would be fun no matter what we did. But if I must write something i would have to say that a good first date would be going somewhere that we can sit and get to know each other. LOL but honestly i would love to hang out on a Saturday watching college football and giving him sh*twhen his team loses! LOL

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  • Guadalupe from Pauls Valley | Woman | 37 years old | Scorpio
    Guadalupe

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I love reading, writing, spending time with family, beer and wine tasting, and baseball (GO CUBS!!). I'm chubby--what can I say, I love good food and enjoying my favorite beverages. I know how to love, have a generous heart, know how to talk sports, love bike riding, concerts, and karaoke. I've also recently taken up running. Looking for an intelligent, warm-hearted conversationalist to share common interests. A beer, a walk, a cup of coffee. Somewhere we can talk!

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