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Jelissa, 40
United States, Oklahoma, Pauls Valley

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Love musis..all kinds they type of music I listen to often depends on my moods. Probably most of all a country girl..country musics tells stories and I love a good story. I am a child of the 80's you know I have to be a supporter. I love the classic stuff, it takes me back to a time in my life where nothing mattered but the moment you were in. It's the second thing I turn on after I wake up, coffee pot of coarse the first. I love soft relaxing music just before I go to bed..well unless sleeping is the last thing I have on my mind when I am in bed...;)I am a bright beautiful woman, I have been thru hell, (well them havent we all in one way or another) but what i find most amazing about the human spirit is how resilent it is...at least mine anyways...I believe in love and happiness...dont know if everyone has a soulmate..God knows I havent found mine yet.....I have a postive outlook on life and am greatful for the chance to keep looking. I love to give but only as good as I get...I fall hard...but am very loyal. I have children and they are important to me, and my wish is that they would be to you as well...(I believe that being a "step parent" is one of the most important and honorable jobs out there....and i would take that responsebiltiy very seriously if the need be)As far as being unique, arent we all.....but as far as be...I think I am funny, cute, sharp and quick witted. I am creative and helpful, and a romantic at heart....i think if I had to chose one thing that I have lacked in the last relationship is romance..i can give but havent had much experience getting it...so keep that in mind.....Well I could go on and on..what woman cant right...but I think I d like to do that over a drink or two...with some soft music playing in the back ground...until them be well! sorry now pictures but if you are dying to see my pics..they are on my *** levengood dry ) talk to you soon...Newest biggest pet pieve identified........if you want to come say hi..please do..I am cool with that but if you are really interested and take the effort to stop by please have a bit more things to say other then.... hi.....Obviously your found me intriging and delightful....lol....just give me a bit more to show me you care to know a bit more.... well..I stongly believe that you can learn different things about the same person, depending on the environment! But for me I think a nice quiet place, music playing a drink or two (to take the edge off) to start off with. I believe chemistry is important and is a good place to start, if we can sit for hours just looking, laughing and learning about each other, then everything else, is like a walk in a park. ( which is always a great way to spend the first date as well) I have always enjoyed first dates since I have been back in the dating scene again. Once I have started to look at them as an oppurtunity to learn about someone one new, their life expereinces and not as a test of which one passess or fails, they have been fun worth the effort placed in them to make them happen...so bring on the butterflies!Newest biggest pet pieve identified........if you want to come say hi..please do..I am cool with that but if you are really interested and take the effort to stop by please have a bit more things to say other then hi.....Obvioulsy your found me intriging and delightful....lol...just give me a bit more to show me you care to know a bit more....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Museums Portuguese Biography Sci-Fi Western Nascar Soccer / Football Play Sport Games
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