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Harper, 38
United States, Oklahoma, Pawhuska

Offline, last seen Mon, 16 Mar 2026 10:30:45

About Me

Thank you for taking a look at my profile. I'm a brown hair, brown eyed curvy girl. Not sure I'd characterize myself as BBW, but I'm definitely on the bigger side. I understand that everyone has their preferences and that's ok; just don't be rude. I love all types of music and listening to live music. County and rock are my favorite. I like to read books and magazines in my spare time to escape from the daily stress. I admit, I'm a reality TV junkie, but draw the line with some of the stupid shows that are out there now. I really enjoy going to a movie or curling up on the couch with cozy blanket and a DVD. But let's face it, it's much better with a good man by my side! I like to try different restaurants and different foods even though some of my friends think I'm a picky eater! I'm learning to like more things-it's a process!I'm a business professional within the HR arena. Always looking for good ways to de-stress. Yoga is great for that. My biggest indulgence is a full body massage-nothing better than getting as relaxed as you possibly can.I think I'm a pretty down to earth person and I'm looking for someone who can appreciate that and accept it. You won't find anything fake or phony in this girl. What you see is what you get. I just want to have fun with my life and am looking for a long term relationship. I'm open to new experiences. I take care to eliminate drama from my life and so I don't want a guy who is into it. No games-and I mean it. I'm a mature woman who knows what she wants and what she won't put up with.I have kids that I enjoy hanging out and laughing with. Now that they are 20 and 17, that takes on a whole different dimension to our relationship. It's pretty cool. I also have 2 small dogs that are cute as hell! It's also important to me that I connect with someone local. Just makes things easier.Guys, if you really are looking for friends with benefits or just sex, then please don't contact me. I'm looking for more than that. I'd like a guy who is confident in himself and independent. I'm a fairly independent woman and don't NEED a man, but I WANT a man in my life. A soul mate, friend, and lover. I want someone who's comfortable with that. I don't want to be someone's babysitter and I sure don't need one.Hopefully I've given you a good idea of who I am as a person and you feel absolutely infatuated with my charm! If you think we might be a good match, then let's get this thing started! Thanks for checking out my profile! I think a first date should be spent doing something that both individuals enjoy. It would be nice for a man to treat me like a lady when it counts, but not like I'm going to break! I'm up for dinner and a movie or a walk in a park or a visit to one of the local museums. Coffee shops are a great place to connect. Communication! Looking for someone to connect and have fun with. I don't mind getting to know someone while chatting at first, but I will eventually want to meet you and take some of those next steps to explore our compatibility. Chatting back and forth with barely a sentence doesn't work for me, sorry.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Adventure Drama Mystery Computer Games
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