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Elvina, 38
United States, Oklahoma, Oologah

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About Me

I have been out of the dating scene, therefor I am not sure what to say. Here goes I am a hard working single parent of 2 children. I am separated from my husband have been separated longer than we were living together/ married. No, I have no intentions of getting back with him I plan on getting a divorce very soon. I am very active in my children's schools. I am pretty open-minded, but at the same time very closed-minded on certain subjects. When I put my mind to something I will give it all I have until I have accomplished what I am trying to accomplish. I work way to much therefore I don't have much of a social life. I am very career minded, my children and job come first. I know profile says mixed hair color this is because I change my hair color often so I can never say what color it really is at any given time. I have enough of my own drama even though I try my hardest to rid myself of it so I don't want any extra drama added to my life. To better help I will give a list of don't likes and do likes so you do not waste your time. I use to enjoy camping and fishing but now I find that I do not like these things nor do I like hunting never did. I like to just go out shooting but have not done so in a long time. I do not like rice burners but love to ride real bikes. I don't like lazy people that expect everything to be just handed to them. Oh, and if your an alcoholic, dealer, or player don't waste my time. Just trying to be honest, so if you do not like what you read then keep on browsing. If there is something you want to know just ask don't be shy or beat around the bush. Something informal where can get to know each other see if there is a spark or any commonalities.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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