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Marivel, 36
United States, Oklahoma, Okmulgee

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Ahhhh... meetville. Because sitting in a crowded bar trying to scream at each other isn't necessarily a great way to meet people. So I'm here, hoping to find someone with common interests, willing to laugh at life (themselves included!), and maybe make some new friends along the way. I'm passionate about photography (landscapes mostly) and anything having to do with the outdoors (hiking, fishing, camping, kayaking). Being able to combine the two is a bonus for me, and I spend lots of time traveling to state parks in the area (or across the country) when I can. I practice yoga and meditation, but when that doesn't do the trick, I like to go target shooting (yes, really). I've tried combining the two but it's really hard to hold a pistol while standing in tree pose. I occasionally swear like a sailor, but generally act like a lady. This might be a deal-breaker, but I'm NOT that girl that will drag you to the mall and ask you to carry my bags. I'm sorry if I just crushed anyone's dream of sitting on a bench outside Banana Republic with a soft pretzel and an empty wallet. If you take life too seriously, you'll never make it out alive. I could easily spend an hour debating theoretical physics with you, but I'm just as likely to be a smart ass in the process. Don't worry - I enjoy the quiet moments as much as the funny ones. If you've picked up on the sarcasm tendency - consider it a plus if you accept it and are willing to dish it out in return. I find life to be about balance. Given that, I also do volunteer work for a national charity, and try to find little ways of doing good things while not expecting anything in return. What I'm looking for in a guy is simple: honesty and integrity. I give them both 100%, and am hoping to find someone who values the same. The occasional shared hobby probably wouldn't hurt, and I'm a sucker for a good debate. You don't necessarily have to have the same points of view, because I appreciate the chance to see things from a new perspective. If you go through life seeing things only one way - you're going to miss out on something incredible that was right before you the entire time. What else can I tell you? I'm allergic to drama. Life is way too short to get caught up in things that don't truly matter. I'd much rather spend mine focusing on the things that do - my family, my relationship, and the happiness that comes from those. Everything from Metallica to Sinatra. Some of my favorites though are blues and soul. I like to leave some mystery to things - but I'm pretty much an open book in the context of a good conversation. If you want to know, all you have to do is ask. Bonus points for creativity. Try me. Who's up for a trip to the range? Or, you know, drinks are cool, too. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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