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Rafaela, 40
United States, Oklahoma, Okmulgee

Offline, last seen Wed, 26 Nov 2025 02:35:52

About Me

Im a single Mom and my daughter comes first naturally. If you have kids then you'll understand that I need to plan ahead to make time for dating.Im passionate about all things to do with your 5 senses...I watch more tv then Id like to....The music scene has passed me by and I feel totally out of the loop...I guess I have 4 yrs of watchin Noggin to blame for my lack of life..lolI love food...Dancing...Gardening...an easy read...the beach....working out...yoga/stretching....Traveling...Cooking...my family but there all over the place...I cherish the great friendships Ive made over the yrs..:))Ive been in Love a few times and I hope too again...I want my partner to be my best friend and lover...he needs to have some patients....I have little. I dont like internet dating but its hard to meet people otherwise...I find it so unatural.I dont like country music...lol Ive tried just cant get into it...Im more of a jeans and tee shirt with flip flops. I have a few tattoo. At some point Ill post more, I weigh ***and my hairs longer now...other then that I look the same.Update....Im super busy I retrieve most(want to meets and message) from my phone...I try to check my message on the weekends but I cant keep up sometimes. If you live 45 mins plus away I probably wont reply as its just too far. I've tried it twice and it always becomes and issue. If you've contacted me 10 times and I dont reply anymore it means Im not interested. If all your about is your car or toys and $$ we wont mesh. On the other spectrum if your cheap or have no job that needs to be what your concentrating right now not dating.I have to add from prior experience I tend to be atracted to the personality of other Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio's & Aries, call it silly I know but it seems to be what works. I tend to be attracted to men opposite coloring of me...blue/green eyes and brown hair work too...I guess. lol Hey if your bald. Id have no clue what hair color you have... he he heHappy Fishing.... Depends on our interests...Id prefer to take a little time to talk 1stBeach, Dinner, DrinksI dont mean to be rude if I dont IM....I dont really like IMing...or have the time for it with a little one...sorry... A few extra pounds is one thing but if your more then a few Id notice and wonder what else you would lie about...For starters Im looking for friends. I have met a few handful of men on this site and I feel bad when I like the person but Im not attracted to them.Not sure if its a guy/girl thing or just me. I cant tell by a 1x1 pic if theres gonna be an attractionl. In the past Ive met every b/f out and I may have even made the 1st move as Im not shy. Attraction is either there or its not...and though I may like the guy, I cant fake it or settle just to have a b/f. Its just who I am :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

German Korean South American Spanish
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