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Deetta, 40

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About Me

Did a little profile REFRESH...yes it was a lot longer lol=)Funny, sarcastic, quick wit, relatively smart lol....the flip side of my sarcastic nature is a deeply caring soul who is trustworthy, honest, faithful and loving. Huge sports fan and love watching football and baseball...many others as well but those are my favorites. Love spending time at the beach or just being outdoors enjoying the peacefulness of nature. Nothing better than enjoying a few drinks with some good friends, having a bbq or a bonfire and spending time with family....for me it's the simple things in life and being around the people that matter most. Have recently gotten the kayaking bug so am definitely down for hitting the water. I am quite competetive so there isn't much I won't take on as a challenge....air hockey? bring it on lol. Music soothes the soul and there isn't much I don't listen to and movies are always a good way to spend a lazy day.Anyone can give a list of traits they are looking for....of course physical attraction is important...connecting on more than that level is what makes the relationship last. If we meet or talk then there will be more to share about what each of us are looking for. Life can be busy but I MAKE time if I'm interested in someone! Keeping my fingers crossed that someone reading this will want to make time for me.Not everyone is going to be the right one so ya gotta test the waters and when that person walks into your life, everything will make sense=) Most will say that life is too short...I say life is too long to live your life unhappy and I don't plan on settling;) BEST OF LUCK FISHING!!***!!!***Put this on your***!!!***page if you---!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!***know someone in the***!!!***armed forces or to***!!!***show your support***!!!***and respect to all***!!!***our troops A great first date would be one where the man makes the plans...old fashioned thinking I know=) But I guess it would be nice to be surprised *** the normal "whatever you want to do is fine with me".

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Abrielle

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm looking for someone who will compliment my life, not complicate it.I also feel if you are with the right person almost anything can be enjoyed. Have to talk about that together .

  • Dannielle

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am the kind of person that finds joy in the simple things in life. I like to go walking in the park, go to movies, go biking in the park, go to the zoo or aquarium, travel, go to coffee shops or book stores, try new foods and explore new restaurants, go to shows (symphony, theatre, ballet), go to art museums, go to amusement parks, swim, go to beach or water parks etc. I'm not into the bar scene at all, so if you like to do that even in the slightest bit, don't hit me up. I am an artist/musician/poet. So I really would like to continue to grow in those areas, write more music, write more poetry, play more music (I play the cello), draw and paint more etc. and continue to be more creative in my artisticness. I am also a music teacher, so I want to continue to make a difference in the lives of children.My personality is very laid back. One of my favorite things to do is laugh. I don't like to take life too seriously, life is too short. I am very genuine, what you see is what you get. I am also very compassionate and tender hearted. I can also be very passionate when I am talking about something that is very important to me. I am single, never married, no children. I definitely want kids someday. I am also a very devoted Christian, don't *** you don't have the same commitment to Christ. If you don't go to church, don't write to me. Church is a weekly thing for me, and a priority and I won't date someone who doesn't make it the same priority. One of my favorite things is to worship the Lord through music. And to all you guys who keep commenting on how women put pics up from 10 years ago and they are misleading. I promise, all my photos are recent and I do look like the person in these pictures. I will say, I am not a tiny petite person though (like the tiny models out there). I do have curves.I have to say this- are there no more men out there that pursue women anymore?!?!?!?! I am NOT going to be the one to call you and ask you out. I am NOT going to pursue you, so go find another woman that has no self respect or worth and has to cling to her man and constantly call him. Sorry, but I'm not that woman. If you want to go out with me, you'll have to be a MAN and GENTLEMAN and PURSUE! I will not chase after a man. I want to be a woman that respects her man and supports him, but that has to be earned, and I can't wait to respect the man that makes the effort to earn my respect and love and adore me the way a woman should be. Please do not *** you smoke- even occasionally, do drugs, are into porn, or are over 42 years of age. I am so tired of getting *** men that could be my dad! Please, I haven't waited 34 years to find a man who is the same age as my dad or grandfather. Also, if you ***, and I don't respond, I am not interested. My time is precious, so I can't respond to everyone. I like Jazz, Christian contemporary music, and gospel, and classical.I wish all of the best and hope you find your right person. :) To me, the first date is all about getting to know someone. So on the first date, I think its important to talk to each other, whether its at a coffee shop or restaurant. The more exciting and adventurous dates can happen later once you've gotten to know each and decide to continue dating. I'm not dating to waste time anymore.Also, do not ask me to have a one night stand or quick hookup. I am not here to do that. So pass my profile up if that's your intention. I've made it clear what I am here for, but you must read my profile!Also, if you don't keep your word, don't bother contacting me either. One last thing, you guys that have your shirts off on your profiles, its actually a big turn off. Please don't *** you have your shirt off. Most women are not visually stimulated like men are. You guys that have your shirts off on your profile don't know women very well. You are not turning us on like you would be if you saw a woman's cleavage or anything sexy on her body. We just aren't made that way. I don't care what your shirtless body looks like, I want to know who are as man intellectually, emotionally, your personality etc.

  • Marcela

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Life is so very interesting. People think they know what they want by a quick look or a couple days of talking. It takes several weeks of spending time with someone before you learn who they are. With that being said I'm willing to put forward the effort of getting to know someone, go out of my way to drive a lil further if I have to. I'm a very loving person, I like to show affection...rubbing your arm, hand, back, neck...just whatever to make you feel better and let you know I'm there for you.I love to have a good time. I'll try anything once...sometime twice just to make sure I didn't like it the first time! I work hard and play harder. I don't need anyone to take care of me. I got that covered ;).Any type of Music works for me.....*You gotta have a pic ;) How do I know who I'm talking too? LolFYI...I don't date outside of My race....I can be friends with anybody :) Spending time together...something very low key...maybe have a few drinks...Just whatever makes You and Me feel comfortable to meet for the first time :)

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