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Abegayle, 40
United States, Oklahoma, Okmulgee

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About Me

I am looking for an old fashioned romance. I want an actual relationship, that starts out with actual DATES, going out, spending time getting to know each other (and they don't have to cost anything/a lot.Spending time with each other and actually TALK to each other, Let's not get into the intimate details too soon. Sure it can be casual (no sex) at first, while we get to know each other, but ultimately I am looking for a Long Term, Monogamous relationship. If that is not something you are looking for, it would probably be best if you moved along to the next person. It's not that I am anti-sex or a prude. I just want a relationship that is NOT based on sex. Because once your done with sex what is there? I want someone who I can talk about anything with, and who I know wants to be with ME, and not just for the physical aspects. I am shy at first but I talk A LOT once I get to know someone.I fully believe that intimacy and sex are a VERY important part of a healthy relationship. But I ALSO believe that the best foundation is a FRIENDSHIP,I'm looking long term here. I don't believe in that "; fairy tale :) but hey the Serf's can be so much more fun ;).My tastes in me tend to vary. But I tend to go for what my girlfriends back home call "tall, skinny, corn fed white boys" , another friend described my exes as "string beans" I love a guy with a good sense of humor, sarcasm is my second language, so if you can get that and deal We will be good :D. As you may see in my pictures I am a Fatchick. The main photo is my most recent, so it is the most honest view of me.;; Hardey look when out with my guy (joke) I know that for many that it is a turn off, I know for some it is a fetish (ummm I don't want to KNOW if it's a fetish) I am looking for someone who is comfortable with in himself that it doesnt' matter. I am working on changing it, but with my age and medical issues, its not that easy. I am working with a doctor in regards to it. A guy who likes to motivate and help with work outs would be a Bonus LOL . So I consider myself a B'more girl(although not a fan of seafood, however Md Blue Crabs steamed in Old Bay are a awesome treat) . (I bleed purple ; I pretty much listen to everything, (although the "Death Metal" and Hardcore Rap are not included in that, and we can scratch off the Polka music too. I am definitely an 80's hair band fan along with the R& Lets not forget the Celtic/meditation music. :D I am pretty easy going, but am pretty particular on who I date/go out with. I don't want anyone who is older than me or more than 10 yrs younger than me. Body type in guys..........Eminem small and "thin" or Dwayne *** the park or walking around. Talking and getting to know each other. I like to take things really slow, and HAVE to be friends with someone before I can even consider something more serious. I am not a "beach" gal but I do love camping (although I haven't tried it in Fl, kind of not wanting to with all the sand and fire ants) I actually camp in a tent. (but there has to be plumbing near by LOL) I like to attend sporting events (baseball and football)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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