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Lashandra, 38
United States, Oklahoma, Mustang

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About Me

PLEASE READ THIS!!! I wrote it just for you! Hello gentlemen! So, I'm not new to the world of online dating, and as unfortunate as it is to be back here again, I remain optimistic that this will eventually pay off. A little about me: I’m a country girl at heart, and my roots will always be firmly planted there, but my education and the different paths I’ve chosen to take in my life have made me well-versed in city life as well, which I feel makes me a well-rounded and versatile individual. I'll be the first to admit that I am a little old fashioned when it comes to what I want in a relationship. I believe that friendship makes the strongest foundation for any lasting relationship, I believe in marrying for love rather than monetary gain, and I believe that in a relationship between a man and a woman, while each naturally fulfills certain gender-specific roles, the relationship should be a mutual partnership, and not a matter of ownership.As for the kind of man I'm looking for, he doesn't think he's better than anyone else.; two admirable qualities that are sadly lacking in today’s populace. He may not necessarily be the talkative type, but he is emotionally mature enough to be capable of speaking what's on his mind and in his heart. He believes in working hard and taking pride in what he does, but he doesn't believe that money is the true measure of success or of a man. And lastly, while I concede that everyone has baggage, the man I'm looking for has not been left irreparably broken, permanently emotionally or psychologically damaged, or in any way in need of a therapist.I’m looking for a man who is willing to take the time for us to get to know one another. However, I'm not interested in crawling along at a snail's pace either. Patience has never come easy to me, but when it comes to finding my Mr. Right, I’ll wait forever rather than settle. Best of luck to you all!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Blues Rap American Caribbean Adult Biography Music Sci-Fi War Rodeo
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