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Effie, 39

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About Me

NOTICE: My tambourine skills are SOLID. I can supply unbridled bongo fury. AND I can straight **** up a glockenspiel. Get at me bands!!So it's come to this, hey? Wonderful. At least I'm not alone in the search for that "special someone'. I'm easy going and like to joke around. Can't take life to seriously because no one gets out alive. I'm looking for someone who knows what they want and doesn't come with a pile of baggage ( crazy ex's, mommy issues, can't hold a job, filthy slob...you get the idea). I've made peace with my past and want to look forward to a future with someone who wants the same. That's it for now. I'll see what this "bait" catches and add more later if I just get some leeches or blowfish that I would like to avoid.I should add here, I won't respond if you are younger than 35 or older than 45. Not meaning to sound harsh, but I look after people in my career and I have zero interest in doing it in my personal life as well. DO NOT send me *** me to your hotel room. Seriously, do you think you are charming and going to sweep me off my feet like that? I'm here to put serious effort into finding someone, if you aren't, go away. I wish you all the best of luck finding "the one". :) Something fun and get to know each other and be goofy.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Suzanne

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Hmmm......maybe its time to update this!! Not so new on here anymore but wow........this site has been enlightening. I am looking for a honest fun loving caring man who know how to treat a woman right -- gee how is that for cliche`. Oh well.. Someone who is active & lives a healthy lifestyle is important i enjoy running, working out in the gym, golf.......... a nice glass of wine & a fabulous meal or a pint of beer at the pub with friends watching the game on tv especially if its football :) Seriously I am a single mom so my time is precious. I'm not on here to find someone to hook up with. Yes I did pick I want to date but nothing serious just for the fact you need to actually meet/date/get to know someone before you decide mutually if you want more. I have a wonderful son who I love very much. I am not looking for an *** and my son will NOT meet anyone that I date unless it is something long term/serious. I am pretty protective of him & I will not have people coming in & out of his life.

  • Catherina

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    What am I looking for???Well, that's a good question! I'm looking for someone who is down to earth! Someone who likes to have fun, who can laugh (even at himself), and finally someone who wants to be in a relationship! However, I believe that relationships are built upon friendships, so I am looking to get to know someone first and then go from there! I believe that honesty is definitely key to any relationship and it must be there right from the beginning. I would like to meet someone who wants to get out and do things. Go for walks, drives to the mountains, weekend getaways, or just stay home and share a home cooked meal and watch a movie. If you are into traveling that would be awesome too. I'm wanting to travel to new places and explore the world! Anyways, there is more to me and if you'd like to know more, please message back!

  • Ricarda

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am secure & happy with myself, but...Life is meant for 2!! A little bit about myself: I enjoy travel, camping by a lake, home decorating, Video Games, music, my dog, & celebrating special occasions. I am self-sufficient, independent, honest, I have a great sense of humor, & family & friends are very important to me. A man who ONLY has eyes for me & can make me laugh are important qualities! No Pressure! Let's just relax...become friends & get to know each other... and see what happens.Also it seems like most people are looking for a hoook-up on here, if that's you then don't bother messaging me.

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