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Johnie, 39

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About Me

Hello Thanks for dropping in to read about me ;)Well....this online dating scene is still a bit of a bizarre concept for me. After giving it a lot of thought, and seeing as though I very rarely get out I figure that I may as well face this unknown and take a chance. I (and you) never know...Why don't I get out? I am a single mamma and have been from the get go. I have also been balancing mamma- Now that I've graduated (and no longer stay up till 4 Am writing research papers), getting out on the town and making a real connection is now a bit more possible. That's where you come in;)What rocks my world? My son (of course). He's very cool. Isn't there a saying about the apple not falling far from the tree? Being in nature. Music........jazz, hip hop, reggae, folk .....and anything with a good beat or a little bit of ambiance :). Staying healthy, and the feeling that I get after working out. Shiraz. Playing and writing music. Appreciating movies. Pondering and feeling glimpses of interconnectedness. Dancing barefoot in the grass under the stars (It's been a long time). Sustainability. Traveling to foreign countries. Beaches :)Why am I unique? Well....because I am... as we all are. I am social (although with a shy edge)... yet not afraid of spending months in a cabin in the forest by myself with no electricity nor running water. I am as interested in being thrown smack dab in the middle of NYC as I am in being dropped onto a boat access only beach on the wild west coast. I have an appreciation for the diversity, cultures and excitement of the big city but carry the heart of a small town girl who wishes to live on a lovely piece of land and grow all my own food. I am diverse.So...there you have it for now. Perhaps I will hear from you?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ina

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I am looking to get out and live life, try new things, new challenges and meet new people. I am pretty laid back and love meeting people of all types and backgrounds. So many intersting personalities and so many intersting stories. I work crazy shifts, so my schedule is anything but routine. I work in the addictions field, and I don't take my work home ;). Im not opposed to go out for midnight walks,(maybe even a midnight swim), on a beautiful summer night or waking up earlier to take on a great hike. Summer is my favorite time of year. I try to get in as many adventurous days trips and camping as I can. I think coffee is good, but, a cold one while listening to a live band is better. I can appreciate a lot of different styles of music. I really want nothing to do with any kind of drama, that also means, I will never be the other woman, (so dont msg me if you are in a relationship). I am so done with drama, I just want to live, love and have some crazy fun times. :D I am an introvert by nature, but, I quite enjoy when someone can push me out of my comfort zone. Inside there is an extrovert dying to get out and play. I am hoping to find only one man to fulfill everything that I am looking for at this time. My physical preference is tall and muscular, but, perfection is definitely not my ideal man. I just have a thing for tall men, with strong arms ;) First date depends on a few things. One, being the weather. This time a year, it would be nice to meet up on a beach front patio for appies and drinks. But, I'd also be up for seeing your band play in a local pub, and having a couple after. hmmm, there seems to be a theme here, (drinks lol). All in all, something very casual, so either of us could just get up and part ways comfortably if we wanted. ;)

  • Shana

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am a fun loving, outgoing (but known to be shy on occasion), well educated, well travelled, professionally employed woman, looking to meet a man who is handsome, fun, fit, active and successful in his own right. I value the power of a positive outlook and believe that positive energy and thinking will get you everywhere in life. I believe in treating others how you would like to be treated and if you have my heart, I will treat you like gold. I am looking for a guy who makes me strive to be a better person and challenges, encourages and balances me. The little things in life go a long way and I enjoy doing nice things for others. What you put in to a relationship should ultimately be what you get back.If you know how to have a good time, love to laugh and are a well balanced person who believes in all the amazing things this world has to offer- message me.

  • Nicol

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I find pleasure and solitude in the home and that doesn't mean I don't go out, but there is something sweet and enjoyable in nesting. I enjoy to spend time with friends and I am really comfortable in large and small groups. I love my job, I do everything from buying, to design, marketing and selling. It matters a lot to me how I present myself and so I will let you know upfront that I learn a lot about people by the way they treat the people around them-- primarily those who have less power. No matter how I am treated, I watching to see how you treat others. Treat me with respect and undermine the waitress, the elderly, the beggar or the worker bee and in my eyes you will be no greater than the least of these. Of course the opposite is also true. I see life as gift and there is no boundaries unless we put them there. A good ol' fashioned talk on the phone. Perhaps a walk with the dog... if we have some chem then what ever is light and includes some Bordeaux.

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