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Zaida, 40
United States, Oklahoma, Mustang

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Hi!How would my friends describe me? I think they would say I am a friend who is there no matter what, day or night no matter what time it is. They would say I am that shoulder to lean on and that ear to listen when times are happy and when times are sad. What ever it is I am there with out judgement but I do offer my opinion. I am there to hold you when you need, to cry with you, to laugh with you in all situations. I am a great person so they say. I am that gal that you will want to marry and spend a life time with, I am that gal you would want to take home to Ma and Pa and they would be so proud of you and your decision, and I am that gal who would love you unconditional. Are you the man who will *** You fill in the space!!!I love to cook - I am a fabulous cook, making a meal together is very flirty and fun, I love to travel, go for coffee, sing and dance when no ones looking lol and I sing in the car to, so you will have to join in or get used to it, I love to cuddle up on the couch and watch movies, go for walks and people watch, but most important I love to laugh and be silly, if you can't be silly with yourself and others your not having any fun. There's nothing like a good belly laugh and tears streaming down your cheeks or your laughing so hard that your cheeks hurt, then comes the ugly laugh and that's the best feeling with that happens, cause then it just pure laugher and fun. Laughing can make any situation better no matter what. I am kind, caring, compassionate, full of passion and 100% honest. I am an active person, I work out with a personal trainer learning self defence, learning how to box and much more. I enjoy being outside exploring things and I am not afraid to push myself with in reason. I'm not out there to kill myself with hard core activities but do get out and move my ass! I like fishing (you bait the hook please LOL), golf (I suck but it's for fun right), an adventure on a trail, what ever the activity is - I'd like to think I'd try it once. I am on a new journey with life and change so if I am interested in doing it I sure's hell will. This is from a women's point of view - I also am not opposed to sitting watching my man do his thing, cheer him on giving a flirty smack his ass or wipe his brow of sweat and kiss him for a game/job well done. Some thing about watching a man sweat is sexy lol I am not much of a night club gal, a weekend is spent with friends hanging out at a local pub or someone's house making dinner enjoying a good bottle of wine or two, playing games and just enjoying ourselves. I am looking for a man with the same qualities that I have just listed about myself and a man who can be the same kind of friend I am, but also want a man who is confidant and knows who he is and what he wants out of life. I want him to be a great Dad to our kids as my Dad was one of a kind. I am looking for a man who above all, puts family first as mine is to me. Someone who has a similar outlook on life as I do. Someone who can be my friend and lover. I would like him to still have dreams and goals and is not afraid to go after them, I am there to support and encourage him in what ever goals he wants to achieve. I am by his side in good times and in bad. Life is to short to just sit and watch it go by. I want his world to start and end with me but not smother me with always needing me to be around, I do need my girl time with friends and he needs his guy time with his friends. But if we can't stand being apart so be it, my man will always come first. At the end of the day we come home to each other and life as we would know it would be great. There's a lot to say about passion, I am passionate about everything I do, I love with deep passion and I want that passion given back from my future partner and lover. I want to be treated with kindness and always respected, as I would give and do the same. Thanks for stopping by :) and happy fishing! If your wanting to know more send me a message Spring has sprung so maybe a picnic and take a walk along the water front OR What ever we both decide :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

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Would like to find someone who is willing to try/teach scuba diving, skydiving, etc, activities that my body will allow me to enjoy. I am intelligent, confident, generous and outgoing. My faults...well, I can be sarcastic ~funny, not mean; I am very passionate ~sometimes too much so; as I mentioned above, I am strong willed, but have no problem conceding defeat and agreeing to disagree; and I do love to shop ~I have this desire to have my cupboards stocked...its a homemaker thing ~ and yes, I love shoes...its a girl thing (I am proud to say that I'm the queen of bargain hunting)!!! I believe in Karma, paying it forward and that things happen for a reason. I really, really love to learn and feel there is always room for self-growth, be it from meeting new people or seeing new places. Excitement lies with experiencing new adventures.I don't play mind games and demand this same respect back. I want someone who ,can communicate, is open and honest and says what they mean, and means what they say. I am looking for someone real and not someone with a 'cover' identity. I would like to meet someone who is confident and outgoing. Although we'd want to spend time together, he'd be someone who also is comfortable with enjoying time apart. I am hoping to find someone where our chemistry is such that we can have a great night snuggling watching tv then have our passion explode and we can't get each others clothes off fast enough ~ I believe this to be a very important part of a relationship. I've tried the long-distance relationship bit and have concluded that, for the most part, I am not willing to relocate my daughter again. Obviously, if I were blessed in finding my soulmate, well, anything's possible. I am proceeding with this "dating" thing very slowly so don't take offence if it takes time for me to respond. 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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

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