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Phyllis, 36

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About Me

I have a bed from my grandfather, Arts and Crafts style, carved with my father’s initials. I have steel-toed boots and also stilettos (and I can walk in both, thank you)I have a signet ring from my father’ I have a many times great grandfather whose portrait is in my living roomI have old war medals from WWI, WWII, even the Boer War (Google that…)I have a History Major (are you surprised?But…I don’t have any pretentious airsI don’t care what you do for work as long as you’re not looking for a sugar mama (I’m a teacher, after all…)I don’t judge people by their coversI don’t mind being independentI don’t mind sharing my own ideas and opinionsAnd…I am prepared in case of a zombie attack (I love the Walking Dead, Resident Evil, or any apocalypse really…)I can *** own hardwood floors and I KNOW which end of a drill to useI have a soft spot for handy men, if you know what I mean I know where the library is and how to use it (I take out books on drilling…. Just kidding)I worked for a roofing company, and I have a tool belt fetish (plaid shirts too! So cozy!) I have a charmingly eccentric mix of features (if you’ve read this far, you’ve figured that out)I have acquired some unique ***’s skill sets: embroidery, hand sewing, baking, preserving food, storytelling, fire starting, water pumping, sock darning, and most importantly, goat tending (ask me more… I dare you)So…I like the stories behind objects, people, and places. I’m into pre-loved, scratched and dented, slightly used, interesting human beings. I can talk for hours and listen for just as long (and care about what I’m hearing). I don’t need perfect or new or shiny, I’m just as happy with comfortable, cheap and practical. I think sometimes I have too much common sense. I’m a romantic in that I develop sentimental attachments easily. I have a huge devotion to my family (the one I come from and the one I want to make, though I haven’t started yet). I tend to put other’s needs before my own, and have a considerate streak a mile wide. I commiserate and compliment. I work hard, and appreciate that trait in others – it’s hard for me to respect people who have no passions in life, be it for their job or their pastimes. I have traveled the world, in the airplane as well as the armchair. Sometimes I can even start a sentence with a word that’s not “I”…Lastly…I have some Jamaican heritage, so I tan well. I do hot yoga, so I bend well. I am empathic, so I listen well. I helped my sister raise her son and twin girls, so I *** (insert mothering skill here) well. I am one of the most curious people you’re going to meet, and I’m open to human experience, be it bitter or sweet. Winter is coming, let's go for a walk (I have a couple of dogs available), go to the aquarium, the museum, to a game, even a simple time with a pint and a fire is enjoyable with the weather doesn't cooperate.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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