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Jaymie, 39

United States, Oklahoma, Muskogee

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About Me

We're all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you've been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there's no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn't until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems--the ones that make you truly who you are--that we're ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you're looking for. You're looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: the right wrong person--someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, "This is the problem I want to have."I will find that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way.I don't want to be your world, that's just too much responsibility. I will not be your one night stand. It really can't be that hard to find someone that you want to spend more than 5 minutes with. Grill out, go out, and spend time getting to know. I'm not sure I believe in forevermore. I'm not here to scratch your itch. I'm a good girl but that goes out the window with the person I'm with. I'm the girl next door with edge. I'm curvy and no drama. I hate conflict, extremely loyal, but will stand and fight for the things I believe in. I have a ditzy naivety about me but extremely intelligent also. I can be extremely sweet and or brash if I need to be. I can be submissive and I can be dominate. If you read this and say that girl might be out of my league then you're right. I like a confident strong man. Now please understand there is a difference between being of strong character and just an ass. If you're the second I will quickly call you out on it. If you are not at least 5'10 I'm probably not going to be interested. If you are really skinny I'm probably not going to be interested. If you show a hard on in your photos I'm not going to be interested. If you are into gaming as one of your hobbies and have your hat on sideways gangstafied, I'm not going to be interested. For ****sakes you're how old?!?!? I can't say for sure what I'm looking for but I surely know what I'm not looking for. I have changed my life over this year. I have closed my business and left corporate world. I have realized my happiness is more important than money. That my easy going nature thrives in the unstuffy world with which I have thrown restraints away. You can say I play with dogs and horses all day now for my career. I will say that I'm not sure how you guys put up with us. As females we are a pain in the ass. But at the end of the day I'm just a girl. I believe, I feel, I hope, and sometimes I don't want to show the brave strong side. Sometimes I will want to crawl into your lap bury my head into your shoulder and draw upon your strength. Have a super sparkly day. :-) First meet.. Simple and easy.. Meet up for a drink.. ect.. Preferably with easy escape windows.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rock Mexican Turkish Cricket Soccer / Football Watching Sports
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