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Retha, 39
United States, Oklahoma, Muskogee

Offline, last seen Mon, 08 Jun 2026 06:34:27

About Me

I'm a smart, sassy, fun girl looking for the spice in life. Adventures, fun times and spontaneous acts of craziness have been in short supply as of late and it's time for that to change! In short, I'm looking for trouble. The good kind. You know, the kind that leaves you short of breath, your heart racing and saying to each other: "I can't believe we just did that. Let's do it again." A few things I find sexy: confidence, tattoos, glasses, men with shaved heads, intelligence, a crisp white shirt, wit, a sense of style and expressive eyes.You should message me if:You are not intimidated a smart, driven and successful woman.You are a bald man with tattoos wearing a crisp white shirt and glasses. Yes, really.You are Eddie Vedder. Yes, I do realize he's not bald. I'm a study in contradictions.What's that you say? You're not bald either OR Eddie Vedder? That's okay, I'm also open-minded! Keep reading! Maybe you fit into one of these categories *** a wild side that not many people know about (I do...shhhh!).You want to do something fun and spontaneous...Road trip? Sweet. Rock climbing? Let's go! I've never been. Care to try one of my spicy margaritas?ño?You want a workout partner.You are wise beyond your years but still young at heart.You can teach me the secret to meditating and can provide me with some gentle reminders to live in the moment. This moment...right here.You are any combination of the following...curious, creative, daring, a tad mischievous or a bit naughty. Got 'em all? You move to the front of the line!You want to explore and you like a challenge.You agree that "you can't" is not a legitimate or acceptable answer--to any question.A few disclaimers: If you don't have a photo, I'm not likely to respond. So, if you can't post one for whatever reason, please at least send one with your message. I'm not so shallow that looks mean everything, but I'm also not so naive to think that attraction isn't important.Also, if the message you're thinking of sending might read something like: "hey, wut up sexy? How r u?" or something similar, we're probably not a good match. Surprise me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Karen from Muskogee | Woman | 55 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-61

    I enjoy many things: action, thriller & horror movies, DIY projects, wine tasting and just hanging out at home too. One of my favorite things to do is to cook(especially with someone that loves to cook too)it’s a lot of fun sharing recipes and making memories. I’m an open book, just ask me. I can enjoy any kind of sports, I like St Louis Cardinals baseball. But, am ok If you are a Texas Ranger, Yankees or Red Sox fan, They’re great teams! I have so much to give and am looking for that Special someone to share it with. Not looking for FWB and no hook ups. I CAN’T SEE YOUR CHATS OR LIKES. AND IM NOT PAYING FOR THIS SITE. ***

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  • Valery from Muskogee | Woman | 38 years old | Virgo
    Valery

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    The glass is half full kind of girl. Always looking on the bright side. Looking for someone who's happy MOST of the time and loves life.I love coffee any time of the day but it's pretty much mandatory in the AM. When I have free time, if I'm not meeting up with friends then I've been known to enjoy hot tea in the evenings with either a good book or good movie to accompany me. I'm a sucker for romantic comedies and Indie films. I love seafood, sushi, and pizza. Not necessarily in that order. I prefer reading non-fiction mostly. I have a deep love for all the arts so if what we're doing involves something artsy you are pretty much guaranteed a happy girl as your date. Yes my pictures are recent (from ***and most of you always comment on how young I look. So THANK YOU! Just lucky to look a little younger than I am I guess ;-)I am a full time single mom to a sweet 7 year old. She’s an incredible little girl and will always come first. She does have a set number of weekends with her father so that is the time when I can meet new people. I will not introduce anyone to her until we have made a real connection and the relationship has progressed to a deeper level. 7 years old is just too young to understand “dating” in my opinion. I’m not flexible on this so if it’s something you can’t understand, please pass me by. In addition to owning/running my photography business I also teach a photo class once a month, and volunteer for a non-profit organization three or so days a month for a couple of years now. However I've started a new chapter and am now focused on a second degree. This doesn't mean I have put down the camera(s). What else... So just about anything outdoors. I am also taking ballet again, shh... Don't tell anyone or they'll ask me to do a pirouette for them ;-) I love all kinds of music and all kinds of places to see live bands. I love weekend getaways and try to travel somewhere about every 6 to 8 weeks. And YES, I have my passport! The most important quality for me in another is honesty. It’s not about not telling lies. With honesty comes friendship, love, trust, respect, vulnerability, intimacy, patience, passion, and drive among others. Please pass me by if you’re not good at any of the following: Communicating, Self-Confidence, Kindness, Loyalty, Responsibilities, and Being Honorable.Thanks for taking a moment to read my profile!Jess Something as simple as coffee or a drink on a patio.

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  • Sofia from Muskogee | Woman | 36 years old | Aries
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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    CAUCASIAN ONLY, THANKS. Do not date blacks .. No offence....Excuse my pics , just playing with the web cam.. Will post more soon..I dont know if u guys have the same problem, but being honest , we are attracted to what a person looks like, not a silly pose or half naked pictures, and also so many people have a pic of their boat, car or house , and they are not even in the photo,.... if someone thinks we are going to be attracted to what they have, big mistake, they are attracting gold diggers ......I don't want a guy that goes from one relationship to another.....ok now to me..ha ha I'm new to Fl, looking to meet some new friends, and see where that takes me,i don't want to feel everyone I talk to is supposed to be a potential boyfriend, its just hard these days to meet people the old fashioned way, so im doing it this way..I think too many people on here feel pressured that if they start talking to someone that it has to go somewhere, if we have a connection then ok, but if not and I gain a friend Then thats ok too...so Lets just have a chat and see what happens.... It's funny, we are all on here to find someone, yet why is it so hard... Are we all just picky or what... What are ur thoughts?My goal is not to go on as many dates as i can ... im prepared to wait for a good one. *** settling for a just an ok one i can filter out the bad ones, by a couple phone calls.. if u are loud , crude or cant carry a conversation...i know its not going to work..And guys if u think u want to get to know a girl a bit better, after a few msgs on here.. dont ask for her number, just give her yours, and if she likes u she will call and if she doesn't, move on....at least u tried...Pps.. Dont write ur old fashioned an u open the door for the ladies when after ten times u forget... Ha ha

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