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Retha, 39

United States, Oklahoma, Muskogee

Offline, last seen Wed, 05 Aug 2026 21:50:40

About Me

I'm a smart, sassy, fun girl looking for the spice in life. Adventures, fun times and spontaneous acts of craziness have been in short supply as of late and it's time for that to change! In short, I'm looking for trouble. The good kind. You know, the kind that leaves you short of breath, your heart racing and saying to each other: "I can't believe we just did that. Let's do it again." A few things I find sexy: confidence, tattoos, glasses, men with shaved heads, intelligence, a crisp white shirt, wit, a sense of style and expressive eyes.You should message me if:You are not intimidated a smart, driven and successful woman.You are a bald man with tattoos wearing a crisp white shirt and glasses. Yes, really.You are Eddie Vedder. Yes, I do realize he's not bald. I'm a study in contradictions.What's that you say? You're not bald either OR Eddie Vedder? That's okay, I'm also open-minded! Keep reading! Maybe you fit into one of these categories *** a wild side that not many people know about (I do...shhhh!).You want to do something fun and spontaneous...Road trip? Sweet. Rock climbing? Let's go! I've never been. Care to try one of my spicy margaritas?ño?You want a workout partner.You are wise beyond your years but still young at heart.You can teach me the secret to meditating and can provide me with some gentle reminders to live in the moment. This moment...right here.You are any combination of the following...curious, creative, daring, a tad mischievous or a bit naughty. Got 'em all? You move to the front of the line!You want to explore and you like a challenge.You agree that "you can't" is not a legitimate or acceptable answer--to any question.A few disclaimers: If you don't have a photo, I'm not likely to respond. So, if you can't post one for whatever reason, please at least send one with your message. I'm not so shallow that looks mean everything, but I'm also not so naive to think that attraction isn't important.Also, if the message you're thinking of sending might read something like: "hey, wut up sexy? How r u?" or something similar, we're probably not a good match. Surprise me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Reading Boxing To Work Out
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    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Be honest with me: do you feel like if you've read one profile you've read them all? I know that everyone seems to say a few of the same things, like that they are laid back and easy going, or that they enjoy travel and activities both out and at home. That's all nice, but it doesn't really help us identify someone special, does it?To understand me, you have to understand my devotion to my daughter. I know that she was brought to my life to teach me what unconditional love really means, and I adore her sweet, kind and generous personality. She introduced me to the joys of having dogs; I can't imagine anyone not melting at the sight of their sweet, loving faces! There's something so special about taking them all to the park and just enjoying our time togetherI think that stability matters. I don't hop from job to job or from date to date, and think that dating--and life--should be as drama free as possible. Those who know me best know that I am responsible, hard working, compassionate and faithful. I have a silly side that shows through my sense of humor and how I relate with others. I am independent, and am looking for someone who can stand by my side but not be controlling. Completing each other implies that each of us brings certain characteristics to the relationship, but that we complement each other in ways that would otherwise be unfulfilled. That's my definition of a 'perfect match'. I am attracted to men with a great sense of humor, similar interests and the good sense to have fun when possible but be serious when necessary. Conversations are important, so my ideal partner will be able to hold up his end of a stimulating chat, takes pride in what he does and is hard working. I'm looking for the guy who knows who he is and is confident enough to let me be my own person.Sound like you? Then we should start that chat!

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