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United States, Oklahoma, Muskogee

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Updated *********Me:I have a job.I love the water.I love animals.I love the outdoors.I enjoy doing things - the zoo, the beach, going to the park.I enjoy spending time with my kid, I truly think he is a pretty neat guy.I'm a bit of a smarta$$ but sometimes it takes some time to see this side of me.I enjoy the little things in life.I take the road less traveled.I enjoy learning.I like sports, especially football.I've been called a nerd by a few :)I'm very laid back...I don't sweat the small stuff.I'm worth itI'm attracted to a nice smile and great eyes but if you have a great heart, you become much better looking to me.I'm very forgiving.I have morals.I respect myself.You:Have a jobHave a vehicleHave your own placeLike kidsBe confident - this includes being able to make decisions - like asking a girl on a date and planning it :)Have a sense of humorEnjoy being outdoorsEnjoy sports....or be open to watching a ball game here and there.Enjoy doing the little thingsBe open to getting to know me by asking questions.Also being able to spell is good in my book, or at least use the resources available to you. **Hint** if it has a little red squiggly when you type the word out on your profile, the word is misspelled.It helps if you know the difference between to, too and two & their, there and they'reDon't fall of the face of the Earth - if you aren't interested, talking to someone else, not over the ex or are married - man up and let me know. I promise I am not psycho...just let me know. It is called common courtesy.Do the little things....like random texts just to say hey.Be able to put a sentence together, I probably won't respond if you just say "Hi" or "hey!"Smile and be able to laugh at yourself.A good time to me is hanging out with the family and friends by the pool with some adult beverages, some good grub and a little music.If you aren't emotionally ready for a relationship or don't have the time to invest, please don't contact me. Also, if you don't believe in the "golden rule" don't bother. I'm disappointed in so many I have met and have invested in only to have you fall off the face of the Earth. It's called common courtesy along with respect. Obviously you have something going on in your life but at least man up and let a girl know - it's not that hard to say "hey, I'm busy" or "f* off", "hey, I met someone and I want to see where it leads"....or "hey, my wife found out that I'm on this site....and I'm in deep $hit" - ya know....I am a big girl and I can handle it and I'm not going to go all bat$hit crazy on you...but have some cajones and man up and tell it like it is.If you find that you want to talk to me - please do more than just say "hi" - I have listed a few of my interests and I really hope that you have some interests also - it might help if we had some of the same interests. I hate being negative but come on guys - it's not that difficult.I will have to say it is very difficult for me to respond back to an e-mail if you don't make an effort in yours. Acknowledge something I said in my e-mail and/or ask questions. First date - hmmm.... I dunno - someplace that we could talk. Maybe meet at the park and have a picnic. Take the frisbee to toss around and then go for a walk - or a quiet restaraunt. Pretty much somewhere that is easy to communicate. Maybe the zoo - I sooo love the zoo. I am just a big kid at heart!I am leary about the internet dating thing and I have a son to worry about. I would like to talk via e-mail to get the "basics" out of the way and then talk on the phone for a bit before I will meet anyone in person.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Blues Chinese Vietnamese History Romance American Football Cricket
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