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Brinda, 40

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About Me

So here goes, it's been close to four years since I was on this site and thought I would check it out again. Let me say up front that if your main goal is to hook up, I'm not interested and if you want to start talking sexual innuendos in the first couple of messages, again not interested ( and by the way, any grown man that speaks that way to a woman they don't even know should be ashamed of themselves!).I have a good job, great friends and family and my child is almost 18 so my time is mostly my own with few restrictions. I'm not into the bar scene and not looking for someone who goes to bars regularly. All that being said, if I'm to date someone it will be because we enjoy one another with no hidden agendas or fake fronts. Honesty is a huge thing for me, so if there is anything less than 100% honesty all bets are off!P.S. If you are allergic to cats, it will never work, I have 3 of them! Coffee, and take it from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jude

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I like cooking, reading books, I like being in the park with some good wine and just laying out. My house is my comfort zone. Look for the same person, who’ll make it comfortable at home.

  • Laila

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I love early mornings, sipping on my coffee with a good book in hand while listening to the birds sing. My favorite foods are a good Burger, Seafood and Fish with lots of fruits and veggies. My hobbies consist of hunting and fishing. I do own 2 guns and a rod. I am an avid hunter come fall, spring and summer we fish every Sunday. I find inner peace being outside. What girl doesn't love flowers and gardening? A little dirt won't kill you... I will go out to a movie or watch TV, but if it is nice out forget it. I was hockey mom for six years for my son; I do own real skates, just a little rusty. I play volleyball and kickball with a group of co-workers. As far as traveling is concerned I hate to fly...but give me a few drinks and I will be fine. I love football, hockey, and NASCAR!!! I have been known to call it as it is... I don't filter well or so I’ve been told. In other words I speak my mind, and I don’t sugar coat it. Regardless of how it may make you feel. Honesty sucks, but that is who I am. That can be a turn off for some, but it is what it is... I am a busy mom of 3 beautiful girls who live with me, they are 14, 7 & 4. I also have a son that is 21, but he doesn’t live at home. I have been employed with the same company for 20 years of dedicated service. I truly enjoy what I do. When it comes to my children they are my priority, meaning they come 1st, before you. Sorry....*** I am not a "Girly Girl" but I do clean up well when needed. ****** This is what I am NOT looking for to make this easier for both of us ... Marriage, a player, DRAMA, or games, need I say more? I want to begin as friends and see where it goes; ultimately a committed relationship would be nice! ***With that said if you are still curious give me a shout.

  • Dylan

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Been here, done this. So be the one who makes sure i don't ever have to come back. I have pics, just ask. I'm actually a Scorpio. Looking for honesty? I have that, to a fault. So let's start with the basics. I'm a bbw. About ***lbs. My ass IS proportionate to my chest for those wondering. I have 3 kids. (This does terrible things to the body, I don't care what anyone says***lives at home but she's 19. I can be skeptic and quiet but I warm up depending on your level of honesty and compassion and openness. I can be (let's face it, I will be) a beech for 5 days a month followed but 5 days of whining and sleeping. Just leave flowers, cheese nips and chocolate by the bed and tell me to shut up. I will get over it and sing your praises when its over. Promise. :) I have always and will always work my ass off. I love to cook, drive to no where, love the theater, love the beach in the evening and open to doing new things. (This does not include a three some or open relationship) Also happy with a bonfire and a beer. Respect is very important to me. I like a guy who is all guy but knows how to treat a lady. I can be a bad girl and good woman at the same time. I'm looking for my Mr. Right. Not my Mr. Right now. I'm pretty funny too. :) I'm understanding, I'm compassionate and I'm different. Ask me anything, I'm an open book and even though I've lived I still have plenty of pages left to write a happy, fun and hopefully adventurous ending. If it is in your nature to cancel at the last minute, if you are not serious, if you have unrealistic expectations... I will know. Do not message me in the first place. If you do not believe its in your nature to do these things, ask yourself if you've done this before. If you have then IT IS IN YOUR NATURE. I want someone who will make me laugh and who wants to laugh. I know my profile seems a little harsh but I'm not nearly as harsh as it seems. I promise. I am looking for something that will last. I don't want a one night stand, I'm not your good time and no, this is not a challenge. I'm a very caring person. I have feelings just like everyone else does.I have recently been laid off from work. (i'm not jobless yet) But I am looking for work. lol Oh yeah, I'm a small town Northern girl. So small town that I grew up with 6 kids in my class including me.People come in all shapes, sizes and colors.... and we all have something awesome to offer someone. Hopefully the RIGHT someone.

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