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Brinda, 40

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About Me

So here goes, it's been close to four years since I was on this site and thought I would check it out again. Let me say up front that if your main goal is to hook up, I'm not interested and if you want to start talking sexual innuendos in the first couple of messages, again not interested ( and by the way, any grown man that speaks that way to a woman they don't even know should be ashamed of themselves!).I have a good job, great friends and family and my child is almost 18 so my time is mostly my own with few restrictions. I'm not into the bar scene and not looking for someone who goes to bars regularly. All that being said, if I'm to date someone it will be because we enjoy one another with no hidden agendas or fake fronts. Honesty is a huge thing for me, so if there is anything less than 100% honesty all bets are off!P.S. If you are allergic to cats, it will never work, I have 3 of them! Coffee, and take it from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Message me if:*you think poetry and philosophy go well with beer and wine *you are a little bit intellectual, mixed with a fair amount geek and just pure silly*you want to know why anyone would choose to call themselves a sucker fish (I'm curious too. I liked sword fish, but thought clownfish was likely more apropos, sadly. Maybe I should have picked sunfish, or octopus? hmm possibly bad connotations. I like poetry readings, singing karaoke, batting cages, photography, fishing, kayaking(I'm an amateur), going to museums and plays, and both beer and wine. I read, constantly. I write, not as consistently as I want, but I will finish my novel eventually. I work at a college. I want to travel abroad. I want to learn swing dance. I want to get published. I listen to all kinds of music (except techno). My favorites are usually upbeat and singable, but the one song I could listen to forever is Rhapsody in Blue. My favorite poem is Xanadu. My favorite book is whatever I'm working on (reading or writing) at the time (unless I'm reading one of my cheesy romance novels in which case I may fall back on something that sounds more intellectual). *I'm attracted to high energy, humor and intellect. If you describe yourself as laid back and are, we're probably not a good match. If you describe yourself as laid back, but actually you get excited about stuff, we'll have a better shot. Mini-golf, MIA, MoA amusement park, batting cages, skate park. Skate park is my current favorite notion. I won't do any more coffee dates. They feel like an interview and I'm a perfectionist/idealist. Better to have fun and stir up the adrenaline when deciding if the other person is attractive and interesting.

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Its not easy talking bout myself. I am independent, goal-oriented, loving, caring, beautiful woman. I work, an am able to hold my own as would be expected of u. I'm a proud mother of three beautiful daughters! I enjoy going for walks, spending time outdoors, shopping, maybe an occasional drink, kicking it wit friends an family! Not too much into club scene. I'm highly attracted to black men no offense just my preference. Sorry!

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    well what to say here what you see is what you get i am looking for someone who is loyal and honest and caring willing to do what ever it takes i get told i am good with my hands (not sexual either) i am looking for someone to have a good time with like go to movies with or just hang out with.

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