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Charmain, 40
United States, Oklahoma, Miami

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First let me start off by saying I'm a mom first and foremost......Also "if ur a smoker, once a week, only smoke when u drink, only smoke when others smoke, or only smoke black n milds"....yea, please dont message me, cus to me thats not attractive n dnt care for smokers.....smokers breath NASTY....Anyway, moving right along. Hey whats up? Not really looking for anything, but who knows, things happen when you least expect it and I do keep my options open. Looking for great new people to chat with and a great new guy to get to know!! Some say Im a bit of a HARDASS, to go along with my smartassness, lol, and I won't lie I am, but Im also funny, smart and enjoy outdoor activities! Im easy going, honest, loyal, and when Im with someone, I am devoted to just that one person. I'm up for almost anything, if your interested drop me a line. I finally finished with school and taking a break and working on spending quality time with my son and just get back to normal with myself, as far as gym and working out again! LOLMy handsome lil man is 5 years old and he means the world to me, and he's all the lil man I need. He will always be #1 in my life. Im very independent and stand on my own 2 feet no matter what, and believe me Im not on here to find someone to take care of me, I do just fine on my own! Anyways, just coming back on here to chit chat and joke around AGAIN!!!! Im into pretty much anything,let me rephrase that, I think that I would pretty much try MOST anything once(but of course, that depends on what u are thinking about)! So, hit me up if you remember me and if you still wanna chat! Last, but not least, "Its pretty hard finding a guy who isnt into looks first and the heart second. Yes, there MUST be an attraction to the opposite of course, if not, what else do you have to work with. Whenever I get so lucky to meet that special person, he will have my undying love, respect and sincere faithfulness and of course I hope that I will get that back in return. Im not looking to be put on a pedestal or be treated like a princess, Im just looking for someone sincere, loyal, faithful and knows how to treat their woman. TRUST with me has to be earned, trust me when I say that.......Not looking for anything, but if it does happen, thats great, and even if it doesnt happen, thats great too, because, I am very content with being single! I love playing softball and working out, n in the summer time that pretty much consumes my extra time. I am very competitive in anything that I pretty much do. I must say that I definitely have met some CRAZIES on here, and I try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt, sometimes, there just isn't any help for them, they just want sympathy. Its another lesson learned, and learned well....... "ALWAYS GO WITH YOUR ***, IF EVER IN DOUBT"..... Your *** your heart, will never LIE to you! TRUST THEM........ works for me! "God doesn't give you the people that YOU want, he gives you the people you NEED. To help you, to hurt you, to love you and to make the person you were meant to be" "Actions may not always bring happiness, but there is no happiness without action" "ONE DAY SOMEONE WiLL WALK iNTO MY LiFE & MAKE ME REALiZE WHY iT DiDNT WORK WiTH ANYONE ELSE"As a mature woman, I like what I like. I am not looking for love, but if someone does come along that I am compatible with, Iam willing to let it take its course. But for the most part, I would like to just hang out and get to know that person as a friend when the time is there, with no expectations at all. Im usually pretty blunt on what I say, and yes, I am in control of myself and that may be intimidating to others, so, in other words, I will not put up with BS, and drama.......... I am who I am, and it is what it is! One more thing, Im not afraid of commitment, just wanna make sure that the person is worth the wait....... Definitely NOT go to the movies! You might just like the movie better than the date-LOL!! Just kidding, but for real, you cant get to know anyone at the movies! Dinner, bowling, putt putt, anything like that would be fun and cool!I'm very easy going. laid back, outgoing as hell and like to have fun in every aspect of life. Life is too short to be serious all the time, just as long as you know when to have fun and be serious, so, if you are ready for a challenge, here it is! I think communication is the key to any relationship. READ...READ...READ...READ... IF YOU CANNOT READ, PLEASE HAVE SOMEONE READ THIS INFORMATION TO YOU!IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR BOOTY CALLS, FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS, INTIMATE ENCOUNTERS, SHORT TERM FUN, 3-SOMES,4-SOMES, WHATEVER TYPE SOMES........ PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE ME, CHAT WITH ME, CUS I MITE NOT BE SO NICE TO YOU PEOPLE......... MOVE ON TO THE NEXT PROFILE AS I AM SURE THAT YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE THAT IS INTERESTED IN THE SAME THING AS YOU ARE.......THANK YOU AND COME AGAIN!!!!!!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

R&B Indian Japanese Thai Romance Sport Thriller Boxing Soccer / Football
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