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Lari, 40

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About Me

A few things about me....I am obviously a single mom so between my kids and work I am pretty busy. But I do like to make time for myself and would like someone to spend my time with. Men...well I could go all night on that subject but I will just hit the highlights. I despise being lied to. Just be honest. Pretty simple... I like to dress up for a nice dinner but also enjoy playing in the mud or riding the back roads. I am a small woman so I like a man with strong arms that makes me feel safe and protected. I want someone that always makes me feel special and the center of their attention at the moment. There's nothing worse than being on a date and the person you're with flirts with someone else lol. I don't consider myself a needy woman but I do like to feel like I am the most important person you're with when we are together. And I in return will treat you the same. These are the highlights. If you want to know something just ask. Coffee or a drink somewhere quiet where we can talk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Les

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Hi! Prepare by putting on your big-boy pants before reading! 1ST and foremost, before you continue reading...if you decide you want to contact me, HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY!! Please don't waste time w/just "hi" or a ";. 2ND, it's about CONSISTENCY, GENTLEMEN!! A lady wants you to "get her attention", "keep her attention" and "possibly...just maybe wow her at some point in the process"!!!! This lady won't give any chase until GIVEN GOOD REASON TO. And no, I'm not a B-TCH...I'm a mom with A TODDLER and limited, precious free-time!! BTW, humor and wit gets you points!! Make a gal smile and laugh!! Come on...this shouldn't be difficult. It isn't rocket science!! If you think a once-a-week contact gets it for you, then there's the reason why you're still on here. You know what they say, "OUT OF SIGHT" then definitely off my radar!! And, if your children are grown and you're looking to start the next phase of your life with the right lady, then I'm not for you! I started late in life, so compatibility factor goes along better with a man with younger kids or one who is also starting late like me. I've already experienced this recently and attachment/loss to another's kids is heartbreaking. I don't wish to go there again, and I'm even more protective of my son's innocent heart now. If you're still with me thus far, thank you for hanging in there. Go pop yourself some popcorn for the remainder. LOLIf your profile DOESN'T HAVE A PICTURE OF YOURSELF, if you're under 38 or over 45, or if you are well over the normal weight range for you height (say 30+lbs), please don't attempt to message me. Or, if you don't fall into the Caucasian or an American Indian category, please move forward. Not trying to be harsh but don't want to waste your time or mine. (No Patience for liars, players, jerks or fraudulent men -OR- men with Extreme jealously issues or low self-esteem...please don't waste our time) I'm sensitive to smoke, also, so that answers that question. One more tip on me...I'm 5'7", and I like a TALL MAN!! (like legitimate 5'11 to 6'5) It has always been something I'm naturally comfortable with, therefore, my preference. And it's nice to be able to wear heals w/o towering over or feeling like I'm protecting the guy...meaning you don't have a "short-man" complex by listing that you're taller than you actually have measured yourself to be!! If you're not offended yet, please read on....... Where's my Urban Cowboy who puts my plate in his back glass? Where's my Top Gun who Takes My Breath Away? It's high time for my Hope Floats Notebook! Is there anyone else out there who gets this and feels the same way? No, I don't live in a movie theme, but I do believe our hearts yearn for the same romance or love story. I do not believe we were created to be alone. I do believe some of our blueprints may have been smudged, though, along the way. lol I guess I'm just a simple girl in a complicated world...sounds like a song. I've never been a juggler, and I envy those who can. Here's the short/long of it: I've been engaged and divorced (both unrelated) but never really married. Wow, again...sounds like a song! Or, maybe I should write a book. jk Next, I have a 3yr. old son who's the light of my life! With that said, I'm limited on free-time, so patience and understanding go a long way!!! I'm a single mom who works full-time and shares my child's time beyond the time he spends at daycare. I will not rush someone in my son's life, nor will I have my son compete for my attention. If you're not turned off yet, please read on.......I'd like to start dating again. I would like to pursue something more, eventually, but I'm not in a hurry. I can't afford to be. I am stable and secure in my life, so I don't need rescuing, but I appreciate chivalry. I'm a pretty low-key, easy-going kind of girl with what some could call a prissy twist but nothing high-maintenance. I'm not a tomboy, but I love the outdoors! I'm learning to bring fun back into my life, AGAIN, beyond the fun and happiness my son gives me!!! :-P A man with a plan...or an idea or at least some options if nothing else is a great start. Please don't just leave it up to the gal. You really want us to tell you where to spend your dime? And yes, I just said that, but I'm always prepared! If you're not somewhat of an old-fashioned gentleman or mannered cowboy...then please move on! Make your mother or grandmother proud. Can you handle that proposal? I do believe in both romance and simplicity. :-)

  • Felipa

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Not sure what all I want to put here...I'll come back to this later. Save that for later...

  • Keeva

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I'm very laid back and have an amazing sense of humor. While I have a very keen sense of responsibility I can be a pretty impulsive person and welcome fun and good times. I enjoy being very open and outgoing and am at ease with people in general. It takes all kinds of people to make the world go 'round but I choose to surround myself with upbeat, positive people. Open mindedness and kindness are just a few of the qualities that that I possess. I'm fortunate to have career that I love, and it does keep me busy. Having two children that are teens affords me the freedom to be available to have fun when the occasion arises. I'm a nice girl....for the most part. I find making people smile and helping others to be very rewarding. If you're having a bad day, then I'm the girl to cheer you up. If you're having a hard time, then I'm the girl to cheer you on. If you just want to feel sorry for yourself and whine, then move along because you will drive me nuts.**Update** I am astounded at the number of dishonest people on this site. My friend has told me that I shouldn't expect people to be as honest as myself. Why not? I believe that lying takes a lot more energy than telling the truth, and going with that theory I must say that there must be some pretty exhausted people on this site, lol. I used to really find a man with a nice behind sexy. Now I've come to the conclusion that the #1 trait that I find sexy is honesty. I hope this makes me mature, not jaded. :) I take pride in being loyal and honest and l am looking for the same. Relationships require time and effort and I'm willing to devote both to the right guy. If I look at your profile and do not message you it does not mean that I am not interested. I do prefer that you message first. I mean, don't we all?...

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