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Jaylah, 40

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About Me

Hi there, thanks for looking. I'm a super busy person, let me repeat, I'm super busy and don't have a lot of time to be on meetville, but I think it is important to balance that busyness with fun. I have a pretty broad definition of fun- If I didn't mention it, ask me if I'm into it, as I'm sure I've missed mentioning something.I used to own a landscaping business, but after having my daughter I decided I needed a career change. I enjoy this with a passion! I'm very driven and focused, but also someone who knows the value of relaxation and fun. I see solutions rather than problems. I'm not a fan of drama unless I'm watching a movie or a play. I sometimes have a rough exterior but I'm really a big softie. I enjoy people and can find common ground with pretty much everyone. I think life is too short to spend time complaining about things.My musical taste includes punk, pop punk, alternative, math rock, indie rock, some metal, rock and roll, very old country, classical, electronic, and anything that feels "right."If you've read this far I should also mention that you need to be a GENTLEMAN, educated- either scholarly or experientially, speak and write in full sentences, and not give me crap for not answering you immediately if we're chatting. Like I said, I'm busy and I'm not trying to offend. But I'm open to meet people and see where things go. Oh yeah, please be between ***and have a picture or a few posted if you want a response. Be a GENTLEMAN- you don't get the bad girl until you get the good girl! And if you choose not to contact me, best of luck and...Happy fishing! :) I honestly have very little time with all of the commuting I do, but I'd love to see a band (fall brings some great bands around! Great conversation is always welcome, and bonus if you make me laugh so hard I cry.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Buddhist

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Les

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Hi! Prepare by putting on your big-boy pants before reading! 1ST and foremost, before you continue reading...if you decide you want to contact me, HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY!! Please don't waste time w/just "hi" or a ";. 2ND, it's about CONSISTENCY, GENTLEMEN!! A lady wants you to "get her attention", "keep her attention" and "possibly...just maybe wow her at some point in the process"!!!! This lady won't give any chase until GIVEN GOOD REASON TO. And no, I'm not a B-TCH...I'm a mom with A TODDLER and limited, precious free-time!! BTW, humor and wit gets you points!! Make a gal smile and laugh!! Come on...this shouldn't be difficult. It isn't rocket science!! If you think a once-a-week contact gets it for you, then there's the reason why you're still on here. You know what they say, "OUT OF SIGHT" then definitely off my radar!! And, if your children are grown and you're looking to start the next phase of your life with the right lady, then I'm not for you! I started late in life, so compatibility factor goes along better with a man with younger kids or one who is also starting late like me. I've already experienced this recently and attachment/loss to another's kids is heartbreaking. I don't wish to go there again, and I'm even more protective of my son's innocent heart now. If you're still with me thus far, thank you for hanging in there. Go pop yourself some popcorn for the remainder. LOLIf your profile DOESN'T HAVE A PICTURE OF YOURSELF, if you're under 38 or over 45, or if you are well over the normal weight range for you height (say 30+lbs), please don't attempt to message me. Or, if you don't fall into the Caucasian or an American Indian category, please move forward. Not trying to be harsh but don't want to waste your time or mine. (No Patience for liars, players, jerks or fraudulent men -OR- men with Extreme jealously issues or low self-esteem...please don't waste our time) I'm sensitive to smoke, also, so that answers that question. One more tip on me...I'm 5'7", and I like a TALL MAN!! (like legitimate 5'11 to 6'5) It has always been something I'm naturally comfortable with, therefore, my preference. And it's nice to be able to wear heals w/o towering over or feeling like I'm protecting the guy...meaning you don't have a "short-man" complex by listing that you're taller than you actually have measured yourself to be!! If you're not offended yet, please read on....... Where's my Urban Cowboy who puts my plate in his back glass? Where's my Top Gun who Takes My Breath Away? It's high time for my Hope Floats Notebook! Is there anyone else out there who gets this and feels the same way? No, I don't live in a movie theme, but I do believe our hearts yearn for the same romance or love story. I do not believe we were created to be alone. I do believe some of our blueprints may have been smudged, though, along the way. lol I guess I'm just a simple girl in a complicated world...sounds like a song. I've never been a juggler, and I envy those who can. Here's the short/long of it: I've been engaged and divorced (both unrelated) but never really married. Wow, again...sounds like a song! Or, maybe I should write a book. jk Next, I have a 3yr. old son who's the light of my life! With that said, I'm limited on free-time, so patience and understanding go a long way!!! I'm a single mom who works full-time and shares my child's time beyond the time he spends at daycare. I will not rush someone in my son's life, nor will I have my son compete for my attention. If you're not turned off yet, please read on.......I'd like to start dating again. I would like to pursue something more, eventually, but I'm not in a hurry. I can't afford to be. I am stable and secure in my life, so I don't need rescuing, but I appreciate chivalry. I'm a pretty low-key, easy-going kind of girl with what some could call a prissy twist but nothing high-maintenance. I'm not a tomboy, but I love the outdoors! I'm learning to bring fun back into my life, AGAIN, beyond the fun and happiness my son gives me!!! :-P A man with a plan...or an idea or at least some options if nothing else is a great start. Please don't just leave it up to the gal. You really want us to tell you where to spend your dime? And yes, I just said that, but I'm always prepared! If you're not somewhat of an old-fashioned gentleman or mannered cowboy...then please move on! Make your mother or grandmother proud. Can you handle that proposal? I do believe in both romance and simplicity. :-)

  • Keshia

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Just recently moved to lake texoma area and would love to make some new friends. I work from home and don't get out much. I thought I'd like to be a lake hermit but turns out it's pretty boring after all. Probably not as much when it cools down though, I love to be out in nature! I prefer sitting under the stars by my firepit or at the water under a full moon *** hanging at a bar..although I do have musician friends so I like to catch a live show when I can. I always try to play pool when I'm out, I need the practice...Yahoo isn't a very good teacher; but I see the lines man, I see the lines! Also dabble in martial arts and am a sucker for intellectual conversation and poetry. I've been described as over-..I have strong political and misc. opinions, but am always learning and researching. Drama free! Anything else you'd like to know just ask. Thanks for stopping by! Have a super sparkely day! :)Ps. I was always taught that the love of money was the root of all evil. Well, so are unrealistic expectations, and lack of effort & communication.My favorite word is "behoove", lol. Honestly? I'd like to go fishing or hunting or hiking or to a concert or mma fight...or something other than the normal! No pressure lol!

  • Darian

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    hello, im a single, fun, family oriented,out going,hard working woman looking for a best friend who shares some of the same interests.I enjoy going to Baseball games(red sox), watching football, BBQs, spending time with my friends and family, short road trips are always fun, amusement parks, and even up for a skydive! Im also good for a nice dinner and movie at home. A nice dinner somewhere quiet so we can talk, then maybe whach a sports game somewhere,

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