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Stef, 40
United States, Oklahoma, McAlester

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About Me

I am a true romantic at heart!! I have a great job and love my career, and it does not consume my home life. I love being social, but sometimes need down time to chill and unwind. I I enjoy laughing, going dancing, hanging out with my friends, and enjoy a very active and healthy lifestyle. I don't need any drama, life comes with its own challenges, so extra drama is unwanted. I figured this was another option to find that special someone. Life is about trying new things, so maybe I'll find that someone here, maybe it's you! I am looking to meet somebody that is easy going, but also able to challenge me, grow with me. Humor and intelligence is very important. I would like to meet somebody that has a great career, but is not consumed by their work. Life is about balance. I enjoy everything from dressing up for a night on the town to wearing T-Shirt and jeans, cuddling on the couch, watching a Canucks or Rider game, or throwing on a ball cap and going for a hike. I have a daughter that is the joy of my life! ***years old) she lives with me most of the time. She has a dad, so I'm not looking for that, but I am at a point in my life where I need to focus on my life again and finding someone to share it with. When I'm not busy working or being a mom, I am also a personal trainer, and a figure competitor so I'm at the gym often. I workout about 5 days a week, but I also enjoy doing outdoor activities, such as hiking, biking, kayaking, camping, golfing, pretty much anything ! I have a 10 month old puppy, and she is Awesome! She has been a great addition to my family! I enjoy good coffee, good (red) wine and great times spent with friends. Life is meant to be enjoyed!***Finding someone who is Physically Fit and Active is very important to me ***I am a very confident woman and know what I want and where I am going, just looking for that special someone to join me in the journey. There is so much that I could keep writing, but that is where getting to know someone comes in.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Art Activities American German Korean
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  • Britt from McAlester | Woman | 35 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-36

    Hi! My name is Britt. I am divorced spiritual but not religious native american woman with kids from McAlester, Oklahoma, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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  • Les from McAlester | Woman | 40 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Hi! Prepare by putting on your big-boy pants before reading! 1ST and foremost, before you continue reading...if you decide you want to contact me, HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY!! Please don't waste time w/just "hi" or a ";. 2ND, it's about CONSISTENCY, GENTLEMEN!! A lady wants you to "get her attention", "keep her attention" and "possibly...just maybe wow her at some point in the process"!!!! This lady won't give any chase until GIVEN GOOD REASON TO. And no, I'm not a B-TCH...I'm a mom with A TODDLER and limited, precious free-time!! BTW, humor and wit gets you points!! Make a gal smile and laugh!! Come on...this shouldn't be difficult. It isn't rocket science!! If you think a once-a-week contact gets it for you, then there's the reason why you're still on here. You know what they say, "OUT OF SIGHT" then definitely off my radar!! And, if your children are grown and you're looking to start the next phase of your life with the right lady, then I'm not for you! I started late in life, so compatibility factor goes along better with a man with younger kids or one who is also starting late like me. I've already experienced this recently and attachment/loss to another's kids is heartbreaking. I don't wish to go there again, and I'm even more protective of my son's innocent heart now. If you're still with me thus far, thank you for hanging in there. Go pop yourself some popcorn for the remainder. LOLIf your profile DOESN'T HAVE A PICTURE OF YOURSELF, if you're under 38 or over 45, or if you are well over the normal weight range for you height (say 30+lbs), please don't attempt to message me. Or, if you don't fall into the Caucasian or an American Indian category, please move forward. Not trying to be harsh but don't want to waste your time or mine. (No Patience for liars, players, jerks or fraudulent men -OR- men with Extreme jealously issues or low self-esteem...please don't waste our time) I'm sensitive to smoke, also, so that answers that question. One more tip on me...I'm 5'7", and I like a TALL MAN!! (like legitimate 5'11 to 6'5) It has always been something I'm naturally comfortable with, therefore, my preference. And it's nice to be able to wear heals w/o towering over or feeling like I'm protecting the guy...meaning you don't have a "short-man" complex by listing that you're taller than you actually have measured yourself to be!! If you're not offended yet, please read on....... Where's my Urban Cowboy who puts my plate in his back glass? Where's my Top Gun who Takes My Breath Away? It's high time for my Hope Floats Notebook! Is there anyone else out there who gets this and feels the same way? No, I don't live in a movie theme, but I do believe our hearts yearn for the same romance or love story. I do not believe we were created to be alone. I do believe some of our blueprints may have been smudged, though, along the way. lol I guess I'm just a simple girl in a complicated world...sounds like a song. I've never been a juggler, and I envy those who can. Here's the short/long of it: I've been engaged and divorced (both unrelated) but never really married. Wow, again...sounds like a song! Or, maybe I should write a book. jk Next, I have a 3yr. old son who's the light of my life! With that said, I'm limited on free-time, so patience and understanding go a long way!!! I'm a single mom who works full-time and shares my child's time beyond the time he spends at daycare. I will not rush someone in my son's life, nor will I have my son compete for my attention. If you're not turned off yet, please read on.......I'd like to start dating again. I would like to pursue something more, eventually, but I'm not in a hurry. I can't afford to be. I am stable and secure in my life, so I don't need rescuing, but I appreciate chivalry. I'm a pretty low-key, easy-going kind of girl with what some could call a prissy twist but nothing high-maintenance. I'm not a tomboy, but I love the outdoors! I'm learning to bring fun back into my life, AGAIN, beyond the fun and happiness my son gives me!!! :-P A man with a plan...or an idea or at least some options if nothing else is a great start. Please don't just leave it up to the gal. You really want us to tell you where to spend your dime? And yes, I just said that, but I'm always prepared! If you're not somewhat of an old-fashioned gentleman or mannered cowboy...then please move on! Make your mother or grandmother proud. Can you handle that proposal? I do believe in both romance and simplicity. :-)

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  • Keeva from McAlester | Woman | 38 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I'm very laid back and have an amazing sense of humor. While I have a very keen sense of responsibility I can be a pretty impulsive person and welcome fun and good times. I enjoy being very open and outgoing and am at ease with people in general. It takes all kinds of people to make the world go 'round but I choose to surround myself with upbeat, positive people. Open mindedness and kindness are just a few of the qualities that that I possess. I'm fortunate to have career that I love, and it does keep me busy. Having two children that are teens affords me the freedom to be available to have fun when the occasion arises. I'm a nice girl....for the most part. I find making people smile and helping others to be very rewarding. If you're having a bad day, then I'm the girl to cheer you up. If you're having a hard time, then I'm the girl to cheer you on. If you just want to feel sorry for yourself and whine, then move along because you will drive me nuts.**Update** I am astounded at the number of dishonest people on this site. My friend has told me that I shouldn't expect people to be as honest as myself. Why not? I believe that lying takes a lot more energy than telling the truth, and going with that theory I must say that there must be some pretty exhausted people on this site, lol. I used to really find a man with a nice behind sexy. Now I've come to the conclusion that the #1 trait that I find sexy is honesty. I hope this makes me mature, not jaded. :) I take pride in being loyal and honest and l am looking for the same. Relationships require time and effort and I'm willing to devote both to the right guy. If I look at your profile and do not message you it does not mean that I am not interested. I do prefer that you message first. I mean, don't we all?...

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