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Herma, 36
United States, Oklahoma, McAlester

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About Me

About me...lets see, first off I love to laugh, make people laugh and just have fun! I tend to be shy at first but once I get to know people it all changes! my friends would tell you I am probably the most outgoing one of us and tend to be the one to do the crazy things when we hang out.I have had/made a lot of changes with my life in the last 2 years. I relocated here almost 2 years ago and I must say they have probably been the best 2 years of my life. The only thing missing is someone special to spend my free time with. I work as a childcare provider for a local childcare center and there is nothing more rewarding than being a part of a childs education. I enjoy going for walks (I have a year old black lab dog who needs lots of exercise!), basic hiking, photography and taking drives with or without a destination in mind. Winters are pretty low key, though I would like to take up skiing again next year, other than that it is keeping up with the driveway when it snows! Spring and fall are my favorite seasons, nothing better than the smell of spring air and the newness of everything or driving through the mountains to see the changing of the leaves in the fall. Time together could be anything from taking rides, dinners out or in, movies, or tv time just hanging out on the couch. I am pretty laid back and think that anything can be made into a good time! I am looking for someone who has similar interests and yet has their own as well. If I missed anything else feel free to ask.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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