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Josepha, 38
United States, Oklahoma, McAlester

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About Me

I think every time I fill something out about myself it sounds dumb to me. Not that I think I'm dumb but that it sounded WAY better in my head! I am a single mom and my kids come first. If you can't deal with that then don't bother sending me a message and thanks for stopping by. I am a Christian. A firm believer in Jesus Christ. You don't like it? Bye! If you aren't a Christian, then I'm not interested. I love life. I love being outdoors either walking/hiking, seeking caches, exploring new places or whatever else I can do outside. Raised by southern parents so I suppose you could say I'm a southern girl at heart. :) I love my family. I am very close to my extended family as well and miss them so much being that I'm a bit of a drive from most of them. I went back to school in Jan ***and graduated in September of last year w/ an AA in Photography. I LOVE getting lost behind my camera! I'm an assistant soccer coach for one of my daughters soccer teams and am really enjoying it. It has been amazing to watch these kids transform in what they are learning and in life. I am getting back into running but have to do it carefully. "Old age" gets to me sometimes :) But am training again for a 5k but this time w/ my 11 yr old. I am not toned.. yet.. but working on it. I'm not big either. I like someone who takes care of their body. They dont' have to be a gym rat but in shape or EXTREMELY close is nice. I've never been turned on w/ the "more of me to love" type. I am not saying I'm perfect. I find it so much easier to work out with someone but am making due trying to take care of myself. I have been told by my kids that I'm "so crazy" and they don't get why I'm single LOL... not funny kid! ;) I just tell them God hasn't brought the right one by yet. I am looking to make friends. If God shows us that it should be more than that's awesome. If not I'm happy with friends. I am NOT pushing anything, as I want something real. I've been through enough to know what I want and how a relationship should be and one sided isnt' it. If you are controlling... go away, I'll pass. I want to be partners with my very best friend and grow old together. Not find someone, force a relationship and try to be friends when things get rough. I am selective in answering *** don't date younger than me. I don't date long distance. I DON'T date non-believers. Im sure I'll think of something that I completely forgot to say and I'll come back on here and write it in. However, what's the fun in telling everything in writing??? Isn't that part of the fun in getting to know someone? :)Happy fishing Honestly I like being able to chat online a little and find out if there could be anything there. If we decided to go do something then I'd want it to be somewhere we can actually hear each other talk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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