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Takisha, 40
United States, Oklahoma, McAlester

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About Me

I am a great mom of 2 terrific children. I am close friends with my ex-husband as to make the best transition for my children, and to keep things in the positive for them. Why fight? It's a co-parenting thing and best for everyone. I put 110% into everything I do. I am satisfied in my profession and am seeking graduate work in my field. I make my own money and pay my own bills. I am responsible and a genuinely positive person. I am a caring, honest, and sweet lady. I used to enjoy working out ***times weekly and now that I am back in town, I will be re-joining a gym. I love doing outside activities. I like all kinds of music: classic rock, country, reggae, blues, some jazz, folk- I am open to new ideas and experiences. I am family orientated and love spending time with friends and family, and am glad when they can mix. I enjoy meeting new people and making new friends. I believe in Feng Shui and positive thinking. Ultimately, i guess i would like to meet the man that i will fall in love with 6 times a year for the rest of our lives...be 90 on the beach holding hands and still in love.I have a big heart and sometimes I am taken advantage of. . . though I do have a backbone. I am independent, loyal, and respectful, therefore, I would expect the same in a partner. My partner must have a job and pay his own bills- be friendly, caring, and accepting of other people and tolerant of other's choices. I was here about ***yrs ago and well, that lasted less than forever, so I thought I could give it another try. I did forget about this site (at first) and at the push of my cute, caring, kids paid for a 'match'makers site...and can be found there-too. At this point of relocating (moving, new job, graduate school) and ending another ltr, I am interested in meeting people, and giving some people chances, however, I am trying not to jump anywhere too quickly, at the moment. But you never know who you'll meet and how you'll connect.I do have a great sense of humor and definitely have a silly side. It does not present itself in this profile...it seems. I can wear the 'little black dress' and know which fork to use and I also know my way around a tool box. (though I can't fix everything...) first dates are difficult to describe. many things could be fun- depends on the people...I would prefer something to do where we can talk vs something like a movie, where we'd need to be quiet. And something like 'tea' a short visit (so you can 'run away' if you don't like what you see) with an option for it to be longer ;) though, me being the sweet, wonderful person that I am- the latter will probably be the outcome. hehe

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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