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Les, 40
United States, Oklahoma, McAlester

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Hi! Prepare by putting on your big-boy pants before reading! 1ST and foremost, before you continue reading...if you decide you want to contact me, HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY!! Please don't waste time w/just "hi" or a ";. 2ND, it's about CONSISTENCY, GENTLEMEN!! A lady wants you to "get her attention", "keep her attention" and "possibly...just maybe wow her at some point in the process"!!!! This lady won't give any chase until GIVEN GOOD REASON TO. And no, I'm not a B-TCH...I'm a mom with A TODDLER and limited, precious free-time!! BTW, humor and wit gets you points!! Make a gal smile and laugh!! Come on...this shouldn't be difficult. It isn't rocket science!! If you think a once-a-week contact gets it for you, then there's the reason why you're still on here. You know what they say, "OUT OF SIGHT" then definitely off my radar!! And, if your children are grown and you're looking to start the next phase of your life with the right lady, then I'm not for you! I started late in life, so compatibility factor goes along better with a man with younger kids or one who is also starting late like me. I've already experienced this recently and attachment/loss to another's kids is heartbreaking. I don't wish to go there again, and I'm even more protective of my son's innocent heart now. If you're still with me thus far, thank you for hanging in there. Go pop yourself some popcorn for the remainder. LOLIf your profile DOESN'T HAVE A PICTURE OF YOURSELF, if you're under 38 or over 45, or if you are well over the normal weight range for you height (say 30+lbs), please don't attempt to message me. Or, if you don't fall into the Caucasian or an American Indian category, please move forward. Not trying to be harsh but don't want to waste your time or mine. (No Patience for liars, players, jerks or fraudulent men -OR- men with Extreme jealously issues or low self-esteem...please don't waste our time) I'm sensitive to smoke, also, so that answers that question. One more tip on me...I'm 5'7", and I like a TALL MAN!! (like legitimate 5'11 to 6'5) It has always been something I'm naturally comfortable with, therefore, my preference. And it's nice to be able to wear heals w/o towering over or feeling like I'm protecting the guy...meaning you don't have a "short-man" complex by listing that you're taller than you actually have measured yourself to be!! If you're not offended yet, please read on....... Where's my Urban Cowboy who puts my plate in his back glass? Where's my Top Gun who Takes My Breath Away? It's high time for my Hope Floats Notebook! Is there anyone else out there who gets this and feels the same way? No, I don't live in a movie theme, but I do believe our hearts yearn for the same romance or love story. I do not believe we were created to be alone. I do believe some of our blueprints may have been smudged, though, along the way. lol I guess I'm just a simple girl in a complicated world...sounds like a song. I've never been a juggler, and I envy those who can. Here's the short/long of it: I've been engaged and divorced (both unrelated) but never really married. Wow, again...sounds like a song! Or, maybe I should write a book. jk Next, I have a 3yr. old son who's the light of my life! With that said, I'm limited on free-time, so patience and understanding go a long way!!! I'm a single mom who works full-time and shares my child's time beyond the time he spends at daycare. I will not rush someone in my son's life, nor will I have my son compete for my attention. If you're not turned off yet, please read on.......I'd like to start dating again. I would like to pursue something more, eventually, but I'm not in a hurry. I can't afford to be. I am stable and secure in my life, so I don't need rescuing, but I appreciate chivalry. I'm a pretty low-key, easy-going kind of girl with what some could call a prissy twist but nothing high-maintenance. I'm not a tomboy, but I love the outdoors! I'm learning to bring fun back into my life, AGAIN, beyond the fun and happiness my son gives me!!! :-P A man with a plan...or an idea or at least some options if nothing else is a great start. Please don't just leave it up to the gal. You really want us to tell you where to spend your dime? And yes, I just said that, but I'm always prepared! If you're not somewhat of an old-fashioned gentleman or mannered cowboy...then please move on! Make your mother or grandmother proud. Can you handle that proposal? I do believe in both romance and simplicity. :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

German Greek Turkish Crime Documentary Sport War Ice Hockey
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