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Kala, 37
United States, Oklahoma, McAlester

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“I'm a single mom raising 2 wonderful kids who are my world. I'm looking for a partner, best friend and lover to share my life with in a serious, long-term relationship that leads to marriage. I'm down to earth, honest, loyal, affectionate, family-oriented, fun, sarcastic, smart, loving, faithful, thoughtful, responsible, have a good sense of humor, and work out regularly. I enjoy reading, dining out, spending time with family, taking my kids fun places, watching sports, and spending quiet evenings at home with someone special. My ideal match is honest, loyal, faithful, family-oriented, loves kids, responsible, mature, affectionate, fun, works full-time, LIVES ALONE, financially stable, smart, respectful, trustworthy, decisive, athletic, non-smoker, has a good sense of humor, and works out regularly. I definitely do not want to have any more kids but don't mind dating a man who has kids. I prefer a man who has been married before, isn't afraid of commitment, and wants and is ready to settle down. I'm looking for a real man who can take charge and take the initiative to contact me and ask me out in a reasonable amount of time. I only ask that you give me a couple of days notice and respect my time. I want someone who makes time for me, puts forth the effort, and makes me a priority. I will gladly do the same in return :). I want someone who lives no more than 30 minutes from me, doesn't play games, and is open and honest. He should have the desire and the time to invest in a long- I tend to be attracted to Caucasians who do not have facial hair. A man who can cook is a plus ;). Best of luck!

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  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Les from McAlester | Woman | 40 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Hi! Prepare by putting on your big-boy pants before reading! 1ST and foremost, before you continue reading...if you decide you want to contact me, HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY!! Please don't waste time w/just "hi" or a ";. 2ND, it's about CONSISTENCY, GENTLEMEN!! A lady wants you to "get her attention", "keep her attention" and "possibly...just maybe wow her at some point in the process"!!!! This lady won't give any chase until GIVEN GOOD REASON TO. And no, I'm not a B-TCH...I'm a mom with A TODDLER and limited, precious free-time!! BTW, humor and wit gets you points!! Make a gal smile and laugh!! Come on...this shouldn't be difficult. It isn't rocket science!! If you think a once-a-week contact gets it for you, then there's the reason why you're still on here. You know what they say, "OUT OF SIGHT" then definitely off my radar!! And, if your children are grown and you're looking to start the next phase of your life with the right lady, then I'm not for you! I started late in life, so compatibility factor goes along better with a man with younger kids or one who is also starting late like me. I've already experienced this recently and attachment/loss to another's kids is heartbreaking. I don't wish to go there again, and I'm even more protective of my son's innocent heart now. If you're still with me thus far, thank you for hanging in there. Go pop yourself some popcorn for the remainder. LOLIf your profile DOESN'T HAVE A PICTURE OF YOURSELF, if you're under 38 or over 45, or if you are well over the normal weight range for you height (say 30+lbs), please don't attempt to message me. Or, if you don't fall into the Caucasian or an American Indian category, please move forward. Not trying to be harsh but don't want to waste your time or mine. (No Patience for liars, players, jerks or fraudulent men -OR- men with Extreme jealously issues or low self-esteem...please don't waste our time) I'm sensitive to smoke, also, so that answers that question. One more tip on me...I'm 5'7", and I like a TALL MAN!! (like legitimate 5'11 to 6'5) It has always been something I'm naturally comfortable with, therefore, my preference. And it's nice to be able to wear heals w/o towering over or feeling like I'm protecting the guy...meaning you don't have a "short-man" complex by listing that you're taller than you actually have measured yourself to be!! If you're not offended yet, please read on....... Where's my Urban Cowboy who puts my plate in his back glass? Where's my Top Gun who Takes My Breath Away? It's high time for my Hope Floats Notebook! Is there anyone else out there who gets this and feels the same way? No, I don't live in a movie theme, but I do believe our hearts yearn for the same romance or love story. I do not believe we were created to be alone. I do believe some of our blueprints may have been smudged, though, along the way. lol I guess I'm just a simple girl in a complicated world...sounds like a song. I've never been a juggler, and I envy those who can. Here's the short/long of it: I've been engaged and divorced (both unrelated) but never really married. Wow, again...sounds like a song! Or, maybe I should write a book. jk Next, I have a 3yr. old son who's the light of my life! With that said, I'm limited on free-time, so patience and understanding go a long way!!! I'm a single mom who works full-time and shares my child's time beyond the time he spends at daycare. I will not rush someone in my son's life, nor will I have my son compete for my attention. If you're not turned off yet, please read on.......I'd like to start dating again. I would like to pursue something more, eventually, but I'm not in a hurry. I can't afford to be. I am stable and secure in my life, so I don't need rescuing, but I appreciate chivalry. I'm a pretty low-key, easy-going kind of girl with what some could call a prissy twist but nothing high-maintenance. I'm not a tomboy, but I love the outdoors! I'm learning to bring fun back into my life, AGAIN, beyond the fun and happiness my son gives me!!! :-P A man with a plan...or an idea or at least some options if nothing else is a great start. Please don't just leave it up to the gal. You really want us to tell you where to spend your dime? And yes, I just said that, but I'm always prepared! If you're not somewhat of an old-fashioned gentleman or mannered cowboy...then please move on! Make your mother or grandmother proud. Can you handle that proposal? I do believe in both romance and simplicity. :-)

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  • Ally from McAlester | Woman | 29 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 20-27

    Hi! My name is Ally. I am never married other caucasian woman without kids from McAlester, Oklahoma, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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  • Louella from McAlester | Woman | 37 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Do you have a love for all things dark and spooky? Or perhaps you admire artwork of a Gothic nature? Would a woman with body art turn you on or off? If you said yes to the first two and if you like body art on women, well here's your new friend! I'm a bit of a quirky gal....then again I'm an Aquarius, but what would make me happy is to find someone who's just as quirky as I am so we would understand each other and make each other happy. And did I forget to mention I'm an animal lover and I have 2 cats who are very affectionate...like their owner!There is a bit of a shy side to me but once I come out of my shell I'm a lot of fun to be with and I can make you crack a smile...so if you're into a cute, tattooed redhead with a smartass sense of humor look no further...Just one thing I should mention just in case if we click, I'm a happily childfree woman who does not wish to have children. Not that I don't like kids at times, when they're well behaved it's one thing, but for the most part, if you're looking for someone to "settle down and have kids with" I'm not that person, although the settling down (or in my case run wild with) with the right person would be nice. :) I like to go to see rock shows, good movies, shooting pool, and even sitting in a cafe with a capuccino is a great way to sit and get to know each other.

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