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Kala, 37
United States, Oklahoma, McAlester

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About Me

“I'm a single mom raising 2 wonderful kids who are my world. I'm looking for a partner, best friend and lover to share my life with in a serious, long-term relationship that leads to marriage. I'm down to earth, honest, loyal, affectionate, family-oriented, fun, sarcastic, smart, loving, faithful, thoughtful, responsible, have a good sense of humor, and work out regularly. I enjoy reading, dining out, spending time with family, taking my kids fun places, watching sports, and spending quiet evenings at home with someone special. My ideal match is honest, loyal, faithful, family-oriented, loves kids, responsible, mature, affectionate, fun, works full-time, LIVES ALONE, financially stable, smart, respectful, trustworthy, decisive, athletic, non-smoker, has a good sense of humor, and works out regularly. I definitely do not want to have any more kids but don't mind dating a man who has kids. I prefer a man who has been married before, isn't afraid of commitment, and wants and is ready to settle down. I'm looking for a real man who can take charge and take the initiative to contact me and ask me out in a reasonable amount of time. I only ask that you give me a couple of days notice and respect my time. I want someone who makes time for me, puts forth the effort, and makes me a priority. I will gladly do the same in return :). I want someone who lives no more than 30 minutes from me, doesn't play games, and is open and honest. He should have the desire and the time to invest in a long- I tend to be attracted to Caucasians who do not have facial hair. A man who can cook is a plus ;). Best of luck!

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  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Art Activities Fitness / Gym French South American Turkish Action History War Cricket Snowboarding
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