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Shannan, 32

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About Me

I am new to the Sac area & a full time college student.I want someone who I am attracted to who has his life together or at least on the way,& would take me out somewhere that I have a reason to dress up.Someone who would turn into a genuine friend if nothing else because you never know where it will go despite good intentions.I was in 2 serious relationships my entire adult life & dating is not as much fun as I thought it would be & don't need the headache,but I still have needs that I would like to be met by one man.I am very upfront & don't believe in making anyone try to read minds.For many men I come across as demanding because I am blunt & do expect certain courtesies,but the reason there are so many failing relationships whether they be casual or serious,is because people are afraid to express what they want or don't want to hear their partner's express their needs.I don't need anyone to support me or smother me,but would like the attention of a man who knows how to charm a strong woman.To tell you the truth I don't know what I expect this to turn into if I do find a potential match.I think we all want to end up in a satisfying relationship,but I don't believe in forcing something that should naturally evolve.I am playful,nurturing,logical,romantic,curvy but in shape (think Jessica Rabbit),& a person of depth.I want someone I look forward to meeting with an intense attraction,who treats me well & with respect,& doesn't run off crying when I voice my thoughts or show that I'm a real person with flaws & feelings.I prefer dominant but patient/gentle,smell & dress well,***,at least 5'10,nice teeth,considerate,& can be just as interested in my mind as he is in my looks.I don't mind being eye candy,but you won't keep my attention long if you are focused on sex.; develop trust to be able to be yourselves.; keep me will naturally inspire me to take care of him & follow his lead. We'll figure that out if we get that far...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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