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Illa, 34
United States, Oklahoma, Kingfisher

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About Me

After I have been experiencing this website... I figure I make my profile a little more detailed so there are no misunderstandings... not wasting your time or mine since the single / dating life can be awkward.WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR IN A MAN...I prefer a man between the ages of ***note: there may be some flexibility with the age range).I do not discriminate (Note: I am attracted to all races, men of different body types, men without or with kids, etc.). I am looking for a man to be my friend, partner, & lover... hopefully for the long haul. I need someone who is NOT AFRAID OF COMMITTMENT. I am looking for a man that will always keep it 100% REAL with me as I will do with him. It is hard to find that now-a-days. I need an HONEST man. I have NO INTEREST IN LIARS, CON ARTISTS, OR ANYTHING THAT RESEMBLES IT. For example... don't say on your profile that you have a car, but in reality it's been broke down for a year & you been riding the bus... don't say that you don't smoke at all, but in reality you smoke just when you drink... don't say that you are single (as in never married), but in reality you are either divorced or separated. Those are only a few examples. Only you know if your information is wrong. Maybe your life has changed since you originally started your profile. In that case, you should update your profile accordingly to reflect your current life situations. KEEP IT 100% HONEST. I RESPECT HONESTY. Being misleading is a BIG TURNOFF for me.I am looking for a man that communicates since good communication is the key to a healthy relationship (I do not want someone who shuts down when it is time to deal with little or more significant issues). I need a man that will respect me.I need a man that is courteous & considerate.I need a man willing to compromise at times & that does not expect things to always be on his terms. I like it when a man can make me laugh & who enjoys a good laugh, but I also do appreciate a man who knows when it is time to be serious. I am NOT looking for a "friends with benefits" situation... if that is what you want, I am not the one for you. Ultimately, I am looking for a genuine guy to build a life with that ideally has a lot of the same common interests as I do. ABOUT ME...I know what I have to offer & I am looking for that right person to build something with. I am not looking to play mind games with someone. I take care of what I need to do, but I know how to have fun. I am not superficial, materialistic, or a gold digger like some females out here. In the same respect, I am not looking to be someone's "sugar mommy". I am looking for a man that has an income of some sort like I do. I am honest, affectionate, caring, considerate, loyal, motivated, & MORE. I am looking for those qualities in someone else as well. I am also looking for someone to appreciate those qualities of mine & not to take advantage of them. I cook, I clean, & MORE. I am diverse in my music choices (R&B, pop, some rock, some rap / hip hop, some jazz, Motown, etc.) & enjoy going to live shows. I enjoy cooking or dining out enjoying various foods (I may eat a lot at times, but I keep a pretty petite frame). I like comedy (i.e. movies, shows, etc.). I value people who are important to me in my life (family, friends, & whoever that special someone will be). I have been in a few long term relationships & some short term ones, but I am looking for my life partner now. I COULD GO ON & ON, BUT I HAVE STATED THE IMPORTANT THINGS DETAILED ABOVE. IF YOU ARE REALLY INTERESTED AFTER YOU HAVE READ THROUGH ALL OF THAT, SEND ME A MESSAGE. I am a simple person. The ideal first date would be somewhere where we can interact to get to know one another better (i.e. grabbing a bite to eat somewhere, going to a coffee shop, taking a walk outside if the weather is nice, etc.). I do not want to go somewhere that is extremely loud causing us to scream in order to hear one another.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Country Traveling Canadian Indian Japanese Comedy Sci-Fi Drag Racing Golf
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