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Edithe, 35
United States, Oklahoma, Hobart

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About Me

I'm putting this all out here right from the get go, so as to not waste anyone's time... Therefore, if I don't respond to you or don't write an essay back, please do not take it personally and then write me back complaining about it. I have a life outside of this and sometimes don't get on here enough to write back right away. Plus I am looking for certain qualities. I don't feel I should have to explain to every person why or why I do not respond to them. This is a huge reason I stay off these sites because people take things so seriously and it is a huge turn off to me. Please include a picture if you don't have one, I like to know who the heck I'm talking to and probably won't w/b if you don't have a pic ( a real one, I've caught more than a few people with fake pics on here). Just being honest...you can never be too careful on these sites and I don't take dishonestly lightly.Please only contact me if you are drama and jealousy free, are not needy, have a sense of humor, don't smoke or do drugs, don't have a criminal background, and if you're looking for something long term and to eventually settle down. I'm past the stage of casually dating around. I am at the point in my life where I want something substantial that will go somewhere. I would love to get married and have a family at some point down the road, so if you are only looking for friendship, don't bother contacting me. I have enough friends as it is, males included. If you are not a sarcastic person who loves to joke around it would be a waste of your time to contact me, I need a guy with personality!! I'm also a huge movie buff, especially horror and I like my rock and heavy metal, so big plus if you are into those!!! I may come across harsh in this description, however I am a super friendly and humorous girl. I just like to get this out in the open right away to save the hassle of wasting anyone's time. I have to have my guard up, too many people on these dating sites have ruined my experience. Therefore, I will most likely be pretty guarded with my personal info until I get to you know a bit more. It's tough being a female on these sites. God speed to everyone on here! :) I don't like anything super formal for a first date, it makes me uncomfortable. So for a first date I would prefer meeting up for a drink and/or seeing a band or something, depending on what we're both in mood for. Something more low key and informal is my style until I get to know you better. I'm open to ideas.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Indonesian Korean Comedy Drama Western
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