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Elfleda
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Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 28-38
I have an inbox full of "hi, wanna chat?" messages; please come up with something unique and enticing if you would like a response. Thank you :)Now on to the good stuff :) Who I am:I'm a defense litigation paralegal and a devoted mother to my 22 month old daughter. She is the light of my life!My career is fast paced, but I love that I have a good work-life balance.My parents *** me great morals so I definitely know the difference between right and wrong and I'm a good girl.I'm honest, sometimes to a fault and I'm not afraid to make and/or admit to my mistakes.I think I'm pretty funny :) I'm optimistic, affectionate and romantic, realistic, level-headed, independent, responsible, intelligent; and not just book smart, I have common sense too lolI also have enough wit to banter with the boys, but in all honesty, I'm not a HUGE sports fanatic. Don't get me wrong, I like sports and I'd be happy to go to a baseball game once and a while, but I don't want to spend all day Sunday watching football and golf.What I'm looking for in a man:Well-spoken and intelligent; someone that can challenge me intellectually, but can also make me laugh.You must know the difference between your and you're, also their, there, and they're. Grammar and punctuation are not difficult. Take the time to use them. A solid career is a must and it should make you happy, not be something you dread doing everyday just to pay the bills.Financial responsibility is also huge for me. I'm not asking for a sugar daddy, nor do I want one, but you do need to be able to take care of you without a woman directing you on how to do so. I need a grown man.A nice gentleman who believes in chivalry would be a plus, but it seems to be hard to find these days.Honesty; say how you feel and mean what you say. Please don't play games to try to manipulate the situation.You must be family oriented because my family is my world!What my "relationship needs" are:I need someone who is independent so that we do not lose our own identities as individuals by becoming indentifed only as a "couple." I need someone who is honest and upfront.I need someone who is energetic, enthusiastic and has a high self-image.I need someone who will support and/or participate in my personal and professional interests.I need someone who is NOT looking to be taken care of, but who is realistic about the hard work it takes to build and maintain a stable and happy relationship.I need someone who will take the time to find a resolution to issues as opposed to avoiding conflict by settling for a temporary "I'll say what I think you want to hear to end this discussion" agreement.
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Linzi
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Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 31-41
Just here to meet new ppl and find someone to hang out wit I have two girls can't have any more but I love kids but I don't want to have any more I love foot ball ,swimming,bicking,and making time for the family
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Edithe
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Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 32-42
I'm putting this all out here right from the get go, so as to not waste anyone's time... Therefore, if I don't respond to you or don't write an essay back, please do not take it personally and then write me back complaining about it. I have a life outside of this and sometimes don't get on here enough to write back right away. Plus I am looking for certain qualities. I don't feel I should have to explain to every person why or why I do not respond to them. This is a huge reason I stay off these sites because people take things so seriously and it is a huge turn off to me. Please include a picture if you don't have one, I like to know who the heck I'm talking to and probably won't w/b if you don't have a pic ( a real one, I've caught more than a few people with fake pics on here). Just being honest...you can never be too careful on these sites and I don't take dishonestly lightly.Please only contact me if you are drama and jealousy free, are not needy, have a sense of humor, don't smoke or do drugs, don't have a criminal background, and if you're looking for something long term and to eventually settle down. I'm past the stage of casually dating around. I am at the point in my life where I want something substantial that will go somewhere. I would love to get married and have a family at some point down the road, so if you are only looking for friendship, don't bother contacting me. I have enough friends as it is, males included. If you are not a sarcastic person who loves to joke around it would be a waste of your time to contact me, I need a guy with personality!! I'm also a huge movie buff, especially horror and I like my rock and heavy metal, so big plus if you are into those!!! I may come across harsh in this description, however I am a super friendly and humorous girl. I just like to get this out in the open right away to save the hassle of wasting anyone's time. I have to have my guard up, too many people on these dating sites have ruined my experience. Therefore, I will most likely be pretty guarded with my personal info until I get to you know a bit more. It's tough being a female on these sites. God speed to everyone on here! :) I don't like anything super formal for a first date, it makes me uncomfortable. So for a first date I would prefer meeting up for a drink and/or seeing a band or something, depending on what we're both in mood for. Something more low key and informal is my style until I get to know you better. I'm open to ideas.