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Gracelynn, 27
United States, Oklahoma, Guthrie

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About Me

If we played 20 questions, here'd be some of my answers:1. I am a Christian. I don't want to push it onto anyone, and I'm far from perfect, but it is something that is an integral part of who I am. 2.That being said, I'm not a goody goody prude either. I've done alot of things I regret and I'm not proud of, I'm not any better than anyone else, and I know I'm alot worse than a few too. 3. I want to become a better person, and I know I can't do it on my own. In the long run, I need someone who I can trust and rely on to love me and help me become better, accept my flaws, immaturity, idiosyncrasies, weaknesses and even my hypocrisies- we all have them! 4. It suits me in my job to have that attitude, and I strive to show that to everyone I come into contact with. 5. And like any normal girl, I can be psycho emotional bipolar raving lunatic. :) Seriously though, I can be really sensitive, but I am a giver, and I will pour out my heart and soul for those I care about. I hope my "good" will make up for those moments when I lose it. 6. I feel like every girl needs a guy in her life, whether it be a boyfriend, a guy friend, a brother, uncle, father, grandfather, etc. who will watch out for her and do man things for her. Someone who can give her positive male support and attention. I was always a daddy's girl growing up, and he always made sure that I felt taken care of, respected, and treated like a lady. I need/want a good man like that in my life. 7. I want a guy who will pursue me. That concept is going out of style, but it really appeals to me, and honestly I feel like the relationship is healthier that way. I'm a good enough catch that I shouldn't have to be chasing men down. I'm here, and if I'm interested, I'll respond. Initiate please! :)8. I want someone who likes to be active and travel. I've been in a 2 yr relationship with a homebody and I can't tell you how many arguments we've had because I wanted to do more than just sit at home. I don't want to have to BEG to go do something. I love to travel and go out. I don't want a workoholic who never takes the time to enjoy life. From working out together, to riding bikes, to going out, to road trips, to concerts... movie night at home on the couch is great, but I want it all! :) 9. This one is a tough one for me to admit, because it is a personal flaw that I have: I want to date a guy who is taller than me. I'm relatively tall for a girl (5'8") and there are so many guys who I know are fantastic. I'm so self conscious and feel so uncomfortable about it. I'm sorry- its my vanity, my problem- It just makes me feel so masculine when I look down at guys. I want to be feminine. I want to feel like I am being taken care of and to be held and feel secure, and I just can't get over my issues. But don't worry shorties, there's plenty of girls on here who don't mind! Keep looking!10. I'm looking for a man who is financially stable and independent. I want to go and do, not be stuck at home because we can't afford to go to a movie or take a trip every once in a while. I am not looking to be a gold digger or find someone to become dependent upon, but you do gotta be able to get out and enjoy life. 11. I used to be in denial about this, but I love getting flowers and random little things that let me know you're thinking of me. It never has to be expensive, a flower from the side of the road or a $5 necklace from the mall... I don't have to have fancy dinners or spend every weekend going and blowing- a text in the morning or throughout the day just saying "hey" is my kind of aphrodisiac. I need and require it to be happy. "Its the little things."12. I'd rather be cute than sexy. I might be able to take a pretty photogenic picture, but I am probably going to be one of, if not THE clumsiest and most forgetful person you've ever met. I am NOT smooth. 13. On that note, I grew up a flat chested, pimple face, awkward limbed, clumsy gap toothed goober who's older brother's friends didn't even know I existed in high school. I don't know about that, but I know I've improved since then, but I still think of myself as more of "the girl next door" kinda girl. I think that's a good thing.14. I am proud to be a Southern girl.!!!) but I don't consider myself a redneck. I LOVE to go fishing, I'd go hunting if given the chance, I'd kill to have a 4wheeler and I love to get dirty and play outdoors. But smoking and dipping is disgusting to me. WWF: bad. MMA: good. Going to bars and getting wasted every weekend is not my thing. I hope that I am a good mix of city and country. 15. I have the absolute WORST luck. Things of mine tend to break easily, get lost, or left behind constantly. Something is ALWAYS happening to me. One time a friend said she was having such bad luck, she must have pissed off a witch. I said "well if that's the case, then I must have pissed off a whole COVEN!!" Seriously though, the things that happen to me....16. I have a very wide variety of musical taste- a little bit of everything- pop, rap, country, folk, christian, oldies. My favorite genre would have to be like Goo Goo Dolls, Matchbox 20, RHCP, Lifehouse, Maroon 5, STP, Oasis, etc. IF I had to just choose one genre as my favorite. I don't get into much heavy metal dark screaming stuff. Or polka. 17. I don't like to be hit on like "ur beautiful' or "sup girl, hows ur day?" I am more interested in a more specific, sincere approach. SINCERE!! SINCERE!! SINCERE!!! Girls can (or I know at least I can) always tell when the message is just copy and paste. Who wants to start a relationship with a halfhearted, lazy attempt that 10 other girls got in the same day?18. My preferences are set to require at least ***characters to initiate messages with me. 1) "Sup?";I'm still typing now so I can just send this message I have nothing else to say." Lame. 3) If this is a struggle to you, or you have an issue with it, then we probably aren't going to get along anyway. Trust me, there are other girls (oh look at all that low hanging fruit) that you can talk to, and life will go on.19. Putting forth an effort to spell most words correctly is always a huge plus. I don't know a smart woman who's turned off by proper grammar and punctuation. I'm not an English teacher by any means, but I did pass. I don't want angry messages because you think I'm not giving you a fair shot because you look good but can't come up with more than "hey girl ur $exy" I am open to most anything, however- I don't want our first date to be "just drinks." I want it to be authentic, whatever it is, and meeting to just buy alcohol (or worse, just a coke!) and chit chat isn't what I want my first impression to be.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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