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Essa, 35

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About Me

These are the best words to describe me: Outgoing. Creative. Fun. Spontaneous. Adventurous. Professional. Caring. Positive. Intelligent. Loyal. Honest. Understanding. Talented. Stylish. Loving. Silly. Passionate. Driven. Determined. Real. Upfront. Not Phony. Easy to please...Someone recently told me that I seem so comfortable in my skin. I took that as such a wonderful compliment as I truly believe that about myself as well. I definitely know who I am and am not afraid to let it show! I am very easy going and happy doing just about anything.I am a girly girl. I always like my toe nails painted! :) But I am also the kinda girl that can get down and dirty to remodel a house or do other hard work and won't worry about my nails then. I am in no way high maintenance. I am the kind of girl that can throw on a pair of jeans and grab a beer or put on an evening gown (and make/sew the gown believe it or not) and attend a black tie event.I am very close to my friends and family. I enjoy just about anything as I have diverse interests! Anything outdoorsy - hiking, camping, biking, kayaking, etc. Cooking dinner at home. Dining at a great little spot I have never tried (Love Groupons!). Hanging out with my fabulous friends. Dancing - especially salsa, merenge and cha-cha! Being cozy at home. Throwing parties and get-to-gethers. I love trying new foods and restaurants. I love sushi, indian, middle eastern, steaks, seafood, little diners - anything tasty!I am looking for someone that makes me so excited to meet him; a guy that I have chemistry with and am attracted to. A great smile is a must! And of course he must possess all the great qualities somone should have (like from my list above). I am truly looking for that special someone I can simply spend time with, enjoy life with and laugh with. I am not in a hurry for marriage or babies. I am completely comfortable having someone even as a companion, friend, lover, relationship, just as long as I enjoy the person I am with. I don't like creating a lot of drama, problems or issues in my life. Afterall, life is too short and needs to be enjoyed!Summer ***: Must have photos! No photo, no response! Also, if there is interest based on your message/profile, I will respond!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Shelbyrsanders

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-32

    Hi! My name is Shelbyrsanders. I am never married other caucasian woman without kids from Ardmore, Oklahoma, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Kailee

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Dating should be like a job interview. Several questions should be asked in the very beginning and answered honestly, that way nobodys time gets wasted. I am very guilty of wasting my time with "douche bags" and the like. I am looking for a man to compliment me mentally, intellectually, physically, and professionally. I wear my heart on my sleeve, I have alot of love to give, I can be that sweet smart independent woman in your life that does sweet loving things for you. If you dont have a job or are currently incarcerated: do not contact me. I want a man that can speak his mind and have a spine...not be a pushover..but at the same time be able to hold a woman with the utmost respect and dignity. Be honest, dont lie, dont play....we are too old for games.....whoa! Sorry for venting! I just want the basic classic gentleman....someone to open doors for me. I spend my spare time hanging out with my friends going to the gym, and playing around in the kitchen trying/cooking new things. Im an active person, and hope to meet someone that has the same motivation as I when it comes to health. I enjoy the finer things in life, but appreciate the simpler things. On the first date, I would like to be in a setting that would allow comfortable, easy to hear, conversation. I enjoy getting to know people, their likes and dislikes, their desires and not so much desires. I want to see if he has chemistry with me or not.

  • Lynet

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    So, I'm cynically optimistic and thought I would give this a try! I've realized that I needed more balance in my life, especially when it came to relationships. I've spent the last couple years focused on building my career and what little time I had left I spent with family and friends. I'm settled for the time being-- I'm at a good place with my career, bought a house and rescued a dog (they both definitely keep me busy). I'm outgoing and confident, I have a type A personality and I'm a real people person--so good conversation is a must. I'm caring, but definitely can be sarcastic--I have to keep my dark humor in check. I'm pretty liberal, and not offended too easily--I get my news from the Daily Show and NPR. I'm somewhat of a foodie and definitely like trying new places and cuisines. I love being outside, and definitely look forward to enjoying the fall weather. Since I work longer days during the week I like to take the dog out for walking trails and hiking. I'm into going on road trips, going to flea markets, wineries, museums, or quirky places off the beaten path. I'm just as content staying home and watching movies-- I love the neighborhood I live in and like to be more active in community events. Music-wise I like "old" R&B, Hip Hop, Rap-- the new stuff is cheesy, I listen to pop and pretty much anything on the radio. I just have to put it out there that I have NO interest in WWE or NASCAR-- and I really don't think I could fake it. Otherwise I'm into sports--love football, basketball, baseball. So I'm looking to find someone with similar interests (but I'm open-minded, opposites do attract) likes to have fun, wants to be outside and is kind of handy (or at least willing to try)...and definitely good conversation. Simple things-- meeting for coffee, taking the dog for a hike...or something totally different-- I once had a first date to feed the ducks at the museum, simple and creative.

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