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Marsha, 32
United States, Oklahoma, Ardmore

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About Me

I am looking for smeone who is not on here because they have hit the age where "getting married and having kids" is what they should do with their life. I am looking for someone who has experienced enough trials and tribulations with dating and relationship breakdowns to know exactly what THEY want and deserve in a relationship, not just to "fit the norm". I already have the amazing kids, the cozy house the stability and what I want is someone to share a life with (eventually don't get scared). I believe many people after a marriage or breakup have a chip on their shoulders about relationships and I am the opposite. I am one of those people who would rather leave that bad energy at the door and go into each and every relationship giving 110% and with such honesty and without the games, if it doesn't work that's ok.... as long as it was honest and drama free, I won't regret it. I do believe that it is possible to be happy with the family life and not lose the love, energy and connection as a couple. Those kids and work can certainly suck the life right out of us some days but I am looking for my partner to be my rechargable battery at the end of a bad day or bad week and I would do the same for him. Reciporacation, honesty, generosity, leading by example, taking the higher road, self sustaining and trust I guess are my essentials. Hope that helps.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Reggae Music Chinese Baseball
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