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Cedar, 32
United States, Oklahoma, Ardmore

Offline, last seen Mon, 18 May 2026 18:26:31

About Me

I'm saying this in the first sentence in an attempt to save you the time of reading the profile or typing an *** be silly and tell me that you drive fast. I promise, I google half of the locations I read because I have no idea where they are. The distance restrictions is a simple one for this area, even if someone is willing to make the drive, it won't be long before they don't want to make it (understandably) and I simply don't have the time for traveling to see someone considering all of my other obligations.After taking a year off from dating, I'm going to force myself to "get back out there" although I'm not 100% sure that I want to be, so you're warned. :)I'm very honest, very blunt, and, from what I've been told, not like very many other women on here/around here (Is that a good thing?). I'm from the city, but I moved out to a semi-country area where I now have a small farm in addition to a full time job. I'm stubborn and hard headed and want to do things myself (fixing lawn mowers, cutting down trees, opening jars of jelly), but I have caught myself thinking how nice it would be to have someone that wants to help out or just do things with me (if only I would let them.)I like to laugh, but it has dawned on me that I have not laughed very much lately. In fact, the laughing I did at an episode of Impractical Jokers is the only time I can REMEMBER laughing in the past few weeks. I'm not ashamed to admit I need someone's help to break that streak. (See, there is the honesty coming out.) I'm honestly not thinking about a first "date". I'm willing to meet, in the whole public place thing, and get to know someone, but I don't want to do the "date" thing until I know someone at least enough to know I want to be on a date with them. I hope that made sense. Going about things this way is not something I've done before, but I figured I'd give it a try.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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