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Shaniya, 32
United States, Oklahoma, Ardmore

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About Me

Well, I bet over half of the people on this site won't take the time to read my profile!! But, let's see if this time around on here works out better than the last! I am a very outgoing, fun, caring person who is looking for my soulmate and my best friend. Someone who is only looking to "hook up" should not even message me, as I am not that girl! I am looking for substance, and someone who will treat me with respect. I will give a lot to the person I am with as long as I am receiving it back. My family and friends mean the world to me! I love doing just about anything outside, and I am always open to trying new things. I love to cook (probably my favorite hobby), and I love going to new restaurants and trying new foods. I am pretty much a home body. The club/bar scene is not for me. I grew out of that scene in my twenties and before I had kids. If you would like to know more, feel free to message me! Please don't message me with something like "hey sexy" etc, I will NOT respond. Also, if you have pictures posing with your shirt off, especially standing in a mirror taking one of yourself half naked, I will NOT respond!!! That to me is a major turnoff and is very unbecoming. I would also like to ad, that if you cannot send me a message using proper grammar and properly spelled words, please do not even bother messaging me. That is a HUGE pet peeve of mine. Depends on what the two of us decide

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

American German Middle Eastern Action Family & Kids Sport
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