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Elodia, 38

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About Me

I just finalized my 1.5 yr long divorce and have joint custody of my beautiful 8 year old daughter as well. My ex and I (and his girlfriend lol) all get along so there's no drama with that. I'm Italian, stubborn and I like to do everything myself! I work out and like to be active. I'm not one to just sit around although I do like some movie time on the couch from time to time. Just trying to enjoy life and keep busy. I have a great job in IT Recruiting and just going about life day by day. I love the local band scene and am big into music. Dive bars are my favorite....I drink beer and the occasional glass of wine.... Looking for someone to hang out with and have fun with. I think eating a meal with someone for the first time is actually quite uncomfortable....I think a casual "meeting" is ideal....maybe for some drinks, darts, pool....you get the drift. If there's a spark, then a 1st "date" can be planned....but let's keep it simple, huh? :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sanaa

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I made the mistake of taking a mans word that he was looking for a relationship and out of courtesy I deleted my profile, which I must say was very well written and CLEARLY stated what I want and do not want. He obviously did not read it because he would have never started a relationship with me knowing he could NOT put the effort into one. SO this is my new and improved profile. READ IT. I will not respond to anyone who doesnt. And believe me I will know. I there are ways =) Do not send me a single word message I will delete it. So no hi,hey,hello or anything that everyone else gets. Be original. Yummy, You are sexy and all that will get you deleted. Seriously make an effort boysPLEASE EXIT this profile if you: have ex drama of ANY kind, You have NO time to make an effort for a relationship, you are not ready for a relationship, You dont have a job, You are NOT caucasian, under 5 ' 9 You do drugs or you want a ONE NIGHT STAND!!!! Please do not waste my time or yours. IF your profile main pic is you and a dead animal, we probably wont match!!! Hunting is fine but as your profile pic, come on....Now that I got the brutal **** part out of the way I can now be ME!!!!I want someone fun and outgoing. He needs to make me laugh so hard my stomache hurts. I need him to be a man and hold his hand out when I fall but still giggle at the fact that I fell because i do that often. Make me feel wanted and needed, it takes a simple little text to say HEY im busy ill text you later. If you cant do that we wont work. I need to know that im at least a priority, not first but important.. I sing loudly in the car to really lame songs, I need a guy who will call me a dork but smile because he thinks its cute that im singing like a nerd. I DO not want Brad Pitt but come on guys if you dont think there has to be an attraction then you are kidding yourself. I love sports and you should too. I dont have a problem getting dirty then throwing on the black dress and going out with my man.I have two boys, you will come second to them. ALWAYS. I do not need a man to take care of me, I have a job, my own place and i can do this on my own. I want a partner in crime, someone who will put me in my place and be glad he chose me. Romance never killed anyone guys.Put forth half the effort and you will get that in return, if I feel neglected or *** will move on.Im 36 years old, I am soooo done with the games, my goal is to meet someone i click with and settle down and live happily ever after, Not today maybe not tomorrow but eventually. Midget mud wrestling, need I say more....No I will NOT come to your house for the first date, Think of something original because I am unlike any woman you will meet.

  • Aaliyah

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm down to earth, outgoing and fun. I love to be around people and to try new things. I'm a single mom and do work full time. While my family does come first, I also need adult time. I'm a "girly girl", so please don't ask me to go fishing or hunting, unless fishing involves socializing or hanging out on a boat working on my tan. I don't play sports and quite frankly, if you throw a ball at me, I will duck! I like being outside when the weather is nice, hanging out with friends, bonfires, parties, football games (although I don't know all the rules), shows, concerts, comedy clubs, etc. I also enjoying curling up and watching a good movie. I love to travel and my dream is to someday spend the winter months somewhere warm and the summer months here in MN. I love music, but I'm not a fan of country music. I know about 10 mainstream country songs and I'm okay with that. In the past, I've been in relationships where I've been expected to take care of the man, both financially and emotionally. I need someone who is secure in themselves, not jealous, not overly controlling, and who CAN MAKE ME LAUGH. I love to laugh, I can be silly, so please don't be totally serious. I believe it is healthy for people to have their own individual interests outside of a relationship. I also believe trust is the foundation of a good relationhip. At some point, I would like to be in a long term relationship, however, I'm not in a huge hurry. I've been rushed before and it obviously didn't work out well or I wouldn't be here, lol! I am looking for someone who is SINGLE, as in not married or otherwise attached, and is closer to my age than my son's. He;s 21, for reference.I do work quite a bit and I do have children. This means I am not here for extended periods of time and not during the workday. If you are the type of person that needs a response NOW and will get angry and send me a not so nice message if you don't get it - I am not the girl for you.

  • Sade

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I've been single for about two and a half years, so i'm giving this site another try. I'll even keep this fairly simple. I am content with my life as it is. Mentally, emotionally and financially stable (I expect the same in a man). What I hope to find is someone who can share mutual respect and honesty with me. Someone who can have conversations about everything and nothing...communication is key! If you are not confident in yourself,or are unsure of what you want out of life, please look elsewhere. I live a quiet lifestyle, when I'm home I'm mom, plain and simple my kids come first. Date nights should be full of talking and maybe new experiences. If you've allowed a bunch of drama and negativity in your life...keep it and please don't share it with me... i can guarantee I couldn't live up to those low standards and will bore you!! I don't have a high tolerance for BS. I am patient to a certain extent... Just don't push! If you have marked the following under your intent: "wants to find someone to marry" or "casual dating/ no commitment"... Please explain what your intentions really are, as those two options creep me out! A profile is just a small *** a person...I'm looking to show that special someone the big picture! Best of luck in your search. Lets just make it through at least three days of chatting and then a meet and greet over coffee.

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