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Elodia, 38

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About Me

I just finalized my 1.5 yr long divorce and have joint custody of my beautiful 8 year old daughter as well. My ex and I (and his girlfriend lol) all get along so there's no drama with that. I'm Italian, stubborn and I like to do everything myself! I work out and like to be active. I'm not one to just sit around although I do like some movie time on the couch from time to time. Just trying to enjoy life and keep busy. I have a great job in IT Recruiting and just going about life day by day. I love the local band scene and am big into music. Dive bars are my favorite....I drink beer and the occasional glass of wine.... Looking for someone to hang out with and have fun with. I think eating a meal with someone for the first time is actually quite uncomfortable....I think a casual "meeting" is ideal....maybe for some drinks, darts, pool....you get the drift. If there's a spark, then a 1st "date" can be planned....but let's keep it simple, huh? :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Glenna

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I am an independent woman. I have lived alone for five years now. I love being outdoors. Doesn't matter if I'm in the yard, garage, woods, mud, golf course, softball field, running trails, on the water...well you get the point. I am up for just about anything. I am looking to meet the man that I will spend the rest of my life with and start that new chapter. Not looking for a "part-time lover". I would like him to make me feel he is excited that he has me in his life. I want someone who is crazy about me. Spending time together shouldn't have to be a fight. I have learned from my mistakes and believe it will make me a better partner. What is most unique about me? I am a total tomboy. I have even done some auto body in my days. I am a handy gal as long as someone shows me how it's done. I am a project kind of person and don't usually quit before it is finished (sometimes I have had to give up). I love getting together with my friends, drinking some beers and having our sometimes very odd and inappropriate conversations. I try to get out and exercise at least a few days a week whether it be on my mtn bike, walking with a friend, or jogging with my dog and am thinking about getting into Crossfit. This year has been a year of triumphs....If u don't have a pic or r older than 45 or less than 30, please don't waste time sending a message. I will not respond. I am not looking for anything out of the ordinary but it sure would be nice. Something unexpected and thoughtful will always go a long way. I would be happy with drinks and dinner followed by a night chatting and getting to know each other at a local bar.

  • Inger

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I'm here to make new friends and if I find someone for more than that,well thats great...but we'll cross that bridge then if that happens. I enjoy getting out and doing many things, it all depends on who I am with and what the weather is like. It can be dress up for a nice night out or jeans and a t-shirt sitting around a fire. I'm one of the most down to earth,humorous,honest,respectful,caring,loyal,understanding people that you will ever meet. I love a great conversation which most people don't even know how to do anymore. And I've learned that I have no tolerance for disrespectful and rude people. So many let their "hurts" keep them from moving forward, so they just exsist *** really living. If you only get 1 chance at this life why not make the best of it???? Just because the women in your past has hurt you, don't place "all"women in the same category. And just FYI...I'm not concerned with how much money you have, what material things you possess, or anything of that nature. What matters is that your a good person. If your an as#hole nothing you have can change that, and there is a difference in that and being a smartas#. (I love those people lol) Here's some answers to my most frequent questions. I like.....I dislike...mean people, eating most fish (although I do enjoy fishing lol), shopping, mosquitos,snakes, long lines, people who think they can multi-task but can't, paying taxes, most reality shows, licorice(are you even really suppose to eat that?), running late, deboning chicken, people who forget cars have turn signals, headaches, stumping my toe(although its funny when someone else does it lol), when my lawn mower doesn't crank, and yes there's more on this too...I enjoy reading all kinds of books/magazines, from religious material, health, fiction,true stories,bloomberg businessweek, etc.....This is what I ultimately want...What I want is something money can not buy or take from me! Something like hard times will never break the bond,that no distance could muffle the sounds of his voice,that family starts with the two hearts that come together as one. I have been so stupid thinking I knew what i wanted before, now I know.Its not about something you see in the movies or hear in the music. I actually want someone to struggle with. It is about giving 100%- not ***, i never want your 50,and i will never just give you 50-I need/want the whole you not half of you,***its the willing to sacrifice your own needs for that person, I want that feeling, that when Im rushing home, just because I know you are there, or that you are the first thing I see when I wake up and the last thing I see when I close my eyes at night. Its the little white lies that you tell a person when you dont want to hurt their feelings,and Its the feeling of your better half sneaking up on you in the kitchen or garage or wherever and wrap their arms around you and kiss you, the feeling of your breath being taking away,Its the look he gives me and then all of the sudden I can read his mind, It maybe the flowers that he stopped by the road to pick for me that reminded him of me, The little phrases or notes saying,Honey have I told you lately what you mean to me? The just because moments,not an"occasion" moment...Until then, lets date and have some fun... Good luck and Happy fishing to you all... Angela :o) a date....lets see, lake? bowling? quiet yet entertaining night at home? cold drinks and a warm fire? its about who your with,not what your doing :o)

  • Angle

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am a country girl who is most comfortable in my blue jeans, but also like to dress up to go out also. My kids are the greatest blessing in my life, but I am finding I am ready to have a companion to share my life with also. I am truthful, loyal, respectful, hard working, and fun-loving. I love to laugh, and am told I have a great smile. I am trying to live a healthier lifestyle by staying active and growing some of my own food organically. I would enjoy hearing from you if you are honest, faithful, believe in God, have a gentle spirit, but also are not afraid to stand up for what you believe. I believe communication and cooperation are two important keys in a relationship. Anywhere that we can talk and get to know each other. Picnic at the park or a walk are always good.

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