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Cecil, 37

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About Me

I am super smart, but know almost nothing about almost everything. I’m not afraid to be called out on it. I hate money, but enjoy being frugal. I am not a communist either… I don’t think… at least not the way it was during the Cold War (hopefully you know what that was). I do think I could live in a holistic-living commune though. Ahhh… That might not be an appropriate first-date revelation… oh well… that is me – not always socially appropriate. I love art & music -creating as well as enjoying others’ creations… popular bands, local bands, polka bands. I am not too picky. A good banjo player always makes me grin, even if I’m not really a country fan. Someday I’ll try singing in a rock band, and learn to play the cello.… and meeting new people … which is pretty good for an introvert like me!Cooking is fun; baking is not (too many directions) just tell me what you want and I’ll figure it out. If you want bread or cake from scratch, I know a great bakery and don’t mind the grocery store. I think nothing of spending 3 hours rearranging the living room just to put it back the way it was to begin with. In fact, I think I did that today. You never know until you try… I wouldn’t even ask you for help; unless you care about the floors (I care about the floors, too, but I’ll move the couch without you anyway).I love predictability AND I love spontaneity; but I don’t really like surprises… go figure.Anyway…. I am not even a little bit crazy, and I don’t like drama. I am kind & patient. I return other people’’re talking to me. Maybe that sounds like a good start? The first time we meet should be low pressure, just to see if we're datable. The first date should probably show me that you've paid attention to who I am and what we've talked about. I am super cool with collaborating, but do want a guy to make an effort.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Charisma

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    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Just seeing who's out there, someone to go do things with, just friends for now.

  • Aaliyah

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm down to earth, outgoing and fun. I love to be around people and to try new things. I'm a single mom and do work full time. While my family does come first, I also need adult time. I'm a "girly girl", so please don't ask me to go fishing or hunting, unless fishing involves socializing or hanging out on a boat working on my tan. I don't play sports and quite frankly, if you throw a ball at me, I will duck! I like being outside when the weather is nice, hanging out with friends, bonfires, parties, football games (although I don't know all the rules), shows, concerts, comedy clubs, etc. I also enjoying curling up and watching a good movie. I love to travel and my dream is to someday spend the winter months somewhere warm and the summer months here in MN. I love music, but I'm not a fan of country music. I know about 10 mainstream country songs and I'm okay with that. In the past, I've been in relationships where I've been expected to take care of the man, both financially and emotionally. I need someone who is secure in themselves, not jealous, not overly controlling, and who CAN MAKE ME LAUGH. I love to laugh, I can be silly, so please don't be totally serious. I believe it is healthy for people to have their own individual interests outside of a relationship. I also believe trust is the foundation of a good relationhip. At some point, I would like to be in a long term relationship, however, I'm not in a huge hurry. I've been rushed before and it obviously didn't work out well or I wouldn't be here, lol! I am looking for someone who is SINGLE, as in not married or otherwise attached, and is closer to my age than my son's. He;s 21, for reference.I do work quite a bit and I do have children. This means I am not here for extended periods of time and not during the workday. If you are the type of person that needs a response NOW and will get angry and send me a not so nice message if you don't get it - I am not the girl for you.

  • Aleida

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I have been working in the medical field for over 14yrs and I am now going back to school to become an R.N. I love spending time with my kids, going to the movies, out to dinner, going to the beach, and spending time with my family. I am new to this dating thing, I have been divorced for a long time but just wanted to focus on my kids, now it is time to focus on me! I am looking for a man to be my friend first, start a relationship and see how things go. I want to find some one who likes my kids as well as me, if they have kids that's fine too. Just looking for that one out there for me that is waiting on that one out there for them. Go out for coffee, walk on the beach, go out to lunch or dinner. Up for almost anything

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