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Patti, 34
United States, Ohio, Vandalia

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About Me

I am a happy healthy single mom of 2 beautiful children. They are obviously the most important things in my life. But I'd like to have someone special to share my time with as well. I'm not looking for a father figure for my children, I'm simply interested in a companion for myself. Obviously someone who's man enough to date a single mom, & unfortunately it doesn't seem like there are any "real men" out there! Yes I have children, but yes I do still have plenty of time to devote to a meaningful relationship. I'm extremely honest, I hate liars with a passion! I'm trustworthy, I never cheat. I'm loyal to a fault, I have an enormous amount of empathy, sympathy, & compassion for others. I love with all my heart & soul & I definitely wear my heart on my sleeve. I am not looking for a "f*ck buddy" & if that's all you're interested in, please don't bother messaging me! Honestly I just want to be loved & appreciated. To me relationships are supposed to be ***, not ***& I need a man that can appreciate that. I definitely don't mean to come across b*tchy, Cause that's not how I am. I'm just tired of being burned, & would really just like to meet someone genuine. I like to go out & have fun but I'm just as happy to stay home & watch a movie or my beloved Red Wings. I love to read, I'm a huge history buff. I love & appreciate music immensely, I don't know what I would do without it! I love anything that goes fast, Muscle cars, Motorcycles etc...I would love to go Skydiving, Bungee Jumping, & Deep Sea Fishing. I have a huge bucket list of things I'd like to do, see, & accomplish in my life. I just need a special guy to go along on the ride! :) I don't really have a preference for a first date. I guess just somewhere where we can talk & get to know eachother. Im really at a point in my life where I'm pretty easy to please, & am pretty much cool with just about anything. Definitely wouldn't mind a Wings, Tigers, or Lions game! Go Wings & Go Blue! Lol

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Country Hardcore Rock Craft Making Traveling French Korean Middle Eastern Spanish
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