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About Me

I'm pretty laid back, try to be positive and believe I have a good head on my shoulders. I can be sarcastic and a wise *** at times and always strive to improve myself either mentally, physically or emotionally... Family/good values are important to me as is quality of life. I work hard therefore, I like to play hard. I can go from very practical to appreciating the finer things. I'm straight forward and prefer guys that arent afraid to speak up about what they want/believe in whether its in line with what I believe or not. Having said all this, I'm not perfect and not looking for perfection either... Im very outgoing and attracted to outgoing/social types...also if you love to dance, thats a huge plus! My music tastes are all over the map... from house/club/trance to alternative, rock, ambient, indie, some hip hop and ethnic music (no country, rap). Oh, and I'm about 5'9-5'10 in heels and wear them often! (hint-hint-nudge-nudge-- Someone that is fit and cares about their health, someone who knows when to laugh and when to be serious. I'm attracted mainly to Caucasian men and 'prefer' men who are European/Christian and speak other languages - I find that its easier for them to accept/understand my background. Respect and communication are a must.Deal-breakers: completely opposite religion/beliefs, doesn't want kids and/or has kids, doesnt travel internationally (I like to travel more than above average person cause it is important to me), cigarettes (occasional smokers ok only if its "occasional" lol) or other addictions, doesn't want a serious commitment.Keep in mind that although someone can possess all these qualities, chemistry is key!Note: I'm not looking to serial date, or casually date and def not interested in a fling - just putting it out there! :) Also... if I do not respond, I'm not *** intentionally, but its difficult to get back to every single person if they are not exactly a match. Sorry in advance and best of luck in your search! There is no perfect place for a first date - a place where 2 people can talk freely and get to know one another is ideal :-) If there is chemistry, we can save the fun/romance for later!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jacquelyn

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I have a wide range of interests. As far as music goes I will listen to almost anything from any time period. It just depends on what mood I'm in. Hobbies vary also. I love the outdoors. Not a fan of extreme weather but I do love to hunt and fish. I find a great deal on peace and contentment in natural environments. However, I did grow up in the city and enjoy many things there as well. Movies, theatre, concerts, dining, shopping, being downtown, etc. Currently I'm loving the driving range. I might just try out golf pretty soon. At this point in my life I'm ready to think outside the box and gain some new experiences. I'm interested in meeting all kinds of people and getting to know them better. I'm confident that you can't expect to find a life partner unless you are willing to find a best friend first. Don't ask me in one or two messages if I want to start a relationship. No, I don't want to start a serious relationship with someone or sleep with someone I don't know and you shouldn't either. I will say upfront that I am a commited member of my church and my studies there do have a large impact on my life. Also I am a sociology major but am taking one or two semester off to help my grandparents through some things. I am a server/bartender downtown currently but for the past 7 years I worked with "at risk" teenagers and I loved my job but not the small town narrow minded people I worked with and for so I took a break to do something more laid back for a bit. My work was always challenging but few things in life are more satisfying than seeing a broken person develop hope for their future and a sense of worth. I spend my off time taking life as easy as I can and enjoying every moment possible. I hang out with my kids, their friends and my friends every chance I get. When they are all busy with their life, I read, rest, walk or write. I am an open, honest and sincere person. Some people wsay to a fault. You can ask me anything you want to but when I reply just remember you asked. I DO NOT play games with people. Anything short of that is just plain immature and selfish so if you pride yourself in being a player, move along. Don't waste my time and energy. I focus on being a positive and sucessful person. I do know the difference in sucessful and wealthy. One does not make the other. Happiness comes from within. If you need my world to revolve around your's, I'm sorry, it won't. However, I will be appreciative, respectful and considerate of you as long as you allow me to. I don't have and ideal first date. A good date is one that you have fun on and makes you happy. That could happen in numerous ways.

  • Jeannine

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    For starter's I am a mother of 2 of the most wonderful kids they are my number 1. I am serious about finding someone to be happy with. If you are looking for a easy piece then move along it's not what I am looking for. I am looking for someone who is serious also in finding someone. I am tired of games and drama and people filling your head with things and acting like they care then don't. So, if you are really interested in getting to know me as a person and seeing where thing's go then please message me. I am a great person with a big heart you won't be disappointed. ;) Anything goes, as long as we can talk and get to know one another and see where it goes from the there.

  • Doriane

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I'm 35, attractive, intelligent, funny, kindhearted, loving and open minded. My family is very important to me. I'm a single mom of the most wonderful 16 year old son God ever created. I enjoy life and want to live it to the fullest. It would be nice to have a great man by my side to share it with. I am generally a very happy, friendly person. I love to laugh so a good personality and sense of humor is a must. I am not high maintenance in most ways although my appearance is important to me. I am just as happy cuddling on the couch and watching tv as I am going to the theater {-) }. I have to admit, I am a girly girl; I don't mind getting dirty occasionally but I don't make it a habit. On Friday nights during football season, you'll find me on the 50 yard line cheering for my son and his team. During basketball season I'm in the stands yelling for my son and his team. During baseball season I'm in the bleachers yelling for my sons team. Many Saturdays I'm watching my Gators score touchdowns. My son has trained me well LOL Although I have dated different races, my preference is black men. If that offends you, that is your issue not mine so please keep your rude comments and racial slurs to yourself. I am who I am, I'm happy with who I am and no ones comments or hate will change that. I am not looking to hookup, for one night stands or a friend with benefits. I'm looking for friends first and build on that. I do not play games and live a completely drama free life, I plan to keep it that way. I am not looking for a baby daddy, we are way beyond those years. My son is very respectful and an all around great kid, all I ask for in regards to him is show him respect and love. I need a man that will be a positive influence in my sons life. One of my favorite quotes:"Love isn't finding a perfect person. It's seeing an imperfect person perfectly." - Sam Keen I desire a man with similar interests that I can be myself and have a good time around. Someone to bring out the best in me and allow me to do the same for him. Someone to cuddle up with or enjoy a night out depending on the mood. I have three main requirements in a man - respect, honesty and faithfulness.I'm an open book, so anything you want to know feel free to ask.Why Women Cry .. A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?" "Because I'm a woman," she told him. "I don't understand," he said. His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will." Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?" "All women cry for no reason," was all his dad could say. The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry. Finally he put in a call to God. When God got on the phone, he asked, "God, why do women cry so easily?" God said: "When I made the woman she had to be special. I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort. I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children. I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining. I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly. I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart. I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly. And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed." "You see my son," said God, " The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart -the place where love resides.

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