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Esme, 32

United States, Ohio, Vandalia

Offline, last seen Tue, 15 Sep 2026 14:13:12

About Me

Hi there. Thanks for stopping by and reading my profile. Just recently got burned by someone on this website, but i'm willing to give it another go. I'm sure he's out there somewhere!!!To sum me up...i'm a sarcastic smart-ass (runs in the family) that enjoys having a good time and making other people laugh. I LOVE to cook and am good at it, I just don't have anyone to cook for right now. You gotta know that me and my Wolfie, Bridges come as a package deal. Love us or leave us. I'm a big dog person and will always have one of the Northern breeds -- so big plus if you like the bigger dogs and don't get ung up on shedding. So let's see...what else about me...I work for a bicycle manufacturer and actually like to ride myself, when I get the chance. I want someone to share life with, cook for and actually have a conversation other than "NO, OFF, NO BITE, BAD DOG". I like to do the normal stuff as well; hang out with friends, be outside, hang out with my Neice and Newphews, and I even like to work on my house, in and outside. I'm an independent woman to point of I can think and act on my own, but still appreciate having someone special in my life to share things with. I consider myself the non-clingy g/f type and don't feel we need to do everything together as a couple. I know there are times when you just need to be by yourself or out with friends. I know what I want in life and have a relatively good idea on how to achieve it. I still have a lot of work and personal goals that I want to achieve, one of which is going back to school to get my MBA in Finance. I am looking for a man's man; a man who is more into landscaping then manscaping...haha, a guy who knows his way around a house, tools and cars. I grew up in a "we do it ourselves" I want a man like my dad; he knows almost all there is about cars, can build/repair/fix anything, has a sarcastic wit about him, is considerate, honest, loving, sentimental and still very romantic towards my mom. You gotta know that not wanting kids is a deal-breaker for me as well. I'm looking for a serious relationship that could possibly lead somewhere and I do eventually want a family of my own, whether that is adding to an existing family or starting one of my own. Family is VERY important to me. By the way...you get brownie points for motorcycles and Jeeps. I'm a Jeep girl!!! So...ball is in your court. And guys, please be a bit more creative in your messages. "Sup, Whatup, Hi" really doesn't tell me much. And...showing off the goods in the mirror with your camera phone REALLY doesn't do it for me either. Put a nice smiling photo of you with friends or out doing something goofy and non-posed. That's what gets my attention!! Happy fishing!!! I'm willing to try anything at least once. Take a walk, go out to dinner. A homemade dinner and a nice bottle of wine sounds nice. I know that all sounds so mundain and normal, but its really the easiest and best stress-free way to go on a first day. I'm really up for anything....legal!!!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Camping / Hiking Cricket
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