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Branda, 31
United States, Ohio, Vandalia

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About Me

*I AM LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP...IF YOU DONT WANT THE SAME THING AS ME AND HAVE NO INTENTION OF EVER HAVING A LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP...PLEASE MOVE ALONG...I AM NOT HERE TO BE A BOOTY CALL AND I WILL NOT LOWER MY STANDARDS FOR SOMEONE WHO REFUSES TO MAKE ME HAPPY AND ONLY THINKS ABOUT THEMSELF**You can never make the same mistake twice...the second time its not a mistake, its a choice**A woman can give a man a million reasons to be faithful and he will find at least one reason to cheat...but a man can give a woman a million reasons to cheat and she will always find at least one reason to be faithful**I need a man with goals, dreams, aspirations and who craves success...afterall, 10 years from now, "swag" won't pay the bills**One's own reality is one's own truth and it may not seem plausible unless you have walked in their shoes*I am a single mother of 2 beautiful children. I work hard and spend as much time with my children as possible. I'm finishing up my Legal Secretary certification as well as my Bachelors in Business. I hope to eventually go onto Law School and become a corporate attorney. I need someone supportive of this...someone that isn't selfish and is willing to be there no matter what the circumstance.;If you don't want me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best". I'm not a selfish person but I have needs as well. I cannot do ego's or lies. I have been hurt a lot and I may not know exactly what I want but I definitely know what I don't. My two favorite motto's I live by are " never expect more from somebody than you are willing to give yourself" and " the grass is only greener on the other side because it has been mowed, watered and cared for...ultimately, everyone's yard has the potential to flourish with the right care and attention, it just takes time". I'm fun and creative, tolerable and passionate, a little bit crazy and attentive, goal-oriented and a bit set in my ways but no matter what, I always try to treat people the way I want to be treated. I help but not hurt, I laugh with but not at, and I listen but not judge. A sense of humor is a must!Want to know more???? Hit me up :D I like surprises! But beware, i get bored very easily so a convo with substance is a must! Oh...and I do have trust issues...they stem from raisin cookies looking too much like chocolate chip :/And on a serious note, first impressions are everything. Keep in mind the 3 things you cannot recover in life; the WORD after its spoken, the MOMENT after its missed, and the TIME after its gone...so make it worth it!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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