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About Me

I'm a grad student at Fordham University, studying Social Work. My internship, where I do counseling and co-facilitate a few psychoeducational groups at an LGBTQ advocacy center for teens, is also pretty rad.I love going to concerts and seeing live music in general. Some bands/musicians I like include Ani DiFranco, The Shins, Toots &;. I could seriously go on forever so I'll just stop there haha.Aside from music, I love spending time outdoors, going on nature walks, stargazing, etc. Also, as you can imagine, as a future Social Worker I'm passionate about social issues. This includes issues of inequality, civil rights, poverty, etc. I definitely have some opinions on those matters. I'm always trying to better myself and live consciously. Also, I love to travel. I used to be quite the nomad. Maybe because it's the center of the universe.. or so us NYers think ;) That's up to us to decide! Ideally somewhere public haha

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 25-35

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