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Selene, 30

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About Me

I'm 30 years old, light brown long hair (will be short soon as i'm donating to "Locks of Love"), blue/grey eyes. I'm not thin but i'm not obese. I bite my nails, I rarely wear makeup. If you haven't figured it out yet, i'm not a barbie doll. As for who I am looking for physically... I like a medium build, not into really skinny men and not into really heavy men. An average beer belly is fine but nothing crazy, lol. I'm not into beards, prefer clean shaven. Also prefer short hair. Blue eyes are a bonus but of course not a must ! I'm honestly not huge on looks but that is simply my preference, if our personalities mesh than all of that stuff goes down the crapper! I DO NOT want a man who is all about looks, if I want to go to the corner store in my jogging pants with my hair a mess I WILL and I never want to be with a man who would be embarassed by that, relax and stop thinking about what the rest of the world thinks of you. I've been single for a long time, i'm now ok with that. Of course I miss having someone to hang out with and talk to who is over the age of 6 but really needed the break. I'm finding it very difficult to find a man who I feel a connection with and who I feel is truly looking for the same level of commitment as I. My preference is to find a man with no children, now I know this sounds ridiculous coming from a woman who has 2 children but I've found that it's just too complicated dating someone who has kids and then meshing them all together and praying it works out, it never does ! I enjoy spending time at the park, splash pad, beach and going for walks. I love going out to dinner and a movie and would love to meet someone to go out and try new things with and go on new adventures. I am a huge animal lover and will always have pets. Hope to own a hobby farm one day soon as well. I have my own car , pay my own bills, am not in debt and am financially secure (not rich), I expect all of the same from a partner but it's ok if you are rich :P At the end of the day , I am simply looking for a hard working, honest , funny and simple man who seriously has his priorities in proper order.we probably won't click if you....- cannot go on a date without your cell phone!- live with your parents or with an ex- have slept with more than 15 people- spend more on your car than on your mortgage- do not want to get married- spend an hour getting ready- can't change a tire- are more than just "a bit heavy" (sorry but not attracted to REALLY big men)- expect a woman to pay for a first date- are impatient or ***'t take a joke I think dinner and a movie is great. Get all the talking out at dinner, then relax and unwind during the movie. also very open to fun suggestions.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-34

    First off, I'm 28 for those of you who care (POF won't let me change my age). Looking to meet new people and see where it goes! I have a 4 year old daughter, so I need a man who's patient and sensitive. Also looking for someone who's honest, trustworthy, and respects his girl. You also have to be able to make me laugh. And if you plan on treating all of your female friends the way you treat me, it's not going to work as I need someone who's more dedicated to me and doesn't try to purposely make me jealous. One thing I want to know is, why must a guy message a girl a second, third, fourth time, etc. with the *almost* exact same message if she didn't respond the first time? It's nothing personal, I just don't want to waste your time. If you really consider yourself "different" than the average guy, try to grab my attention with the first message you send me. I don't have a lot of time, so to weed out all the guys who just write, "hey" or "your beautiful" (yes I purposely just spelt "you're" wrong... I've come to the conclusion that 98% of guys on here don't know the difference) nor have any info written in their profile actually takes a lot of time considering how many messages come through a day. And please don't message me asking if I want to f*ck , get drunk, or if you can stay at my place and ask if I have cable, because you're just wasting both our time. Crazies and weirdos.. please stay away!!If you got through all that and understand rather than think I'm a b*tch, then well I'm looking forward to hearing what you have to say! No where fancy, something casual so there's no pressure.

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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    Hey there! I'm a busy girl looking for someone who can keep up with my pace of life! I work two jobs, and go to school full time. I want to find someone to spend my free time with, someone I can learn a little bit at a time! Good relationships need time to grow, there should be no reason to rush into anything!

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    Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-34

    Hello! I never really know how to begin one of these...I'm giving this site one last chance... Hope someone out there can give me a reason to delete this! ;)Born and raised in the suburbs, but I'm a country girl at heart. I love to be spontaneous and have been known to pick a direction, hop in the car, and go find something new and interesting I have never seen before! I'm a former Theater Education major/English minor. So, bad grammar and spelling get under my skin a little. Sorry! I like to keep busy with rock climbing, dance (mostly country and salsa), volleyball, going for walks, freelance photography, trying new things, cooking, and hanging out with my friends. They mean the world to me! Also don't mind just staying at home to relax... I don't do that too often.I'm hoping there's still a few decent, honest guys out there. Someone who I can give the world to and hopefully be given it back. I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic it would seem that I'm not going to settle for another heartache."Isn't there a superman to sweep me off my feet?" (Points if you get the reference!)Couple things about me:-I smile all the time! In my opinion, there are so many things that aren't worth worrying about in the moment! -As far as music goes, I will listen to just about anything... not a huge fan of rap though.-I love dancing! The Rose is always a good time! No, I won't make you go, but it would be a plus! Find me, I'll teach ya something! Brushing up on my waltz and two-steping and could use a partner!-I'm very Irish.-I am addicted to coffee, fruit, and cereal.-I love to help people, and with that I enjoy mission work and outreach opportunities. i.e I don't mind getting my hands dirty.-One little quirk of mine is I LOVE to travel, but hate flying. Go figure!Anything else, I'm pretty much an open book! Have a good one and don't forget KCCO! I'm a fan of coffee or dinner or a walk... something where you can get to know someone. No movies! :-)

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