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Essie, 30

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About Me

Been wanting to change this up for a while so here goes:I don't believe in horoscopes but I'm definitely a Scorpio. If you read the characteristics of Scorpios, you'll know basically what I'm about. I'm intense because I take things seriously. I expect a lot because I give a lot. If you can't handle that, let's not waste our time :)So here's a little about me. I'm a young woman who's been through a lot, now ready to be richly blessed with the husband and family I very much want and deserve. A bit rough around the edges, but with my heart and mind in the right places, with the right intentions. I'm not formal or "perfect", so if you are or try to be, I probably won't feel comfortable around you. The most important thing to remember about me is that I'm very honest. I've seen the havoc that lies impact on relationships and intimacy, and I won't tolerate it. If you are currently battling any addictions, please don't waste your time - I won't take second place to a bottle, etc. I believe in God and the Christian version of Jesus and would prefer you have similar beliefs (though you don't have to be "religious" as I myself am not). I am more home-minded than career-minded and, as such, plan to homeschool my kids - it would be great if you are in a position to provide for that. I will take pride in my home and my family. My intention is to enhance and bless the life of one awesome guy. Ideally, he will be a bug hater and animal lover (especially dogs). He'll be the type that enjoys and seeks out my company, preferring a calmer, simple life over a constant party. He'll be someone who seeks a good work/home life balance. And he'll love to spoil and be spoiled :)So where are you? I know you must be out there! If you've read this far and you like what you've read, go ahead and message me (just know in advance that I don't give my phone number or personal info without meeting first)96% of you won't get past messaging; 2% won't get past a first date. I'm not easy - but I can promise you that I'm worth it!Here are some extra details that were in my original description:I'm currently working in Finance, and expect to be doing so for the forseeable future. Hoping to be a homeowner within the next few years. I have a one year old male Havanese mix and we are currently taking Agility classes which are a lot of fun. Some other things I enjoy would be watching the Ravens play, cooking & baking, planning parties, going to the gym, taking weekend trips, going to the movies, Latin dancing...if you're interested in knowing more just get in touch :) Tambien hablo espanol!Getting in touch with me (please read):I don't plan to be checking on the "meet you" feature so the best way to start contact with me is by messaging.I am more likely to respond to your message if:-You type more than "hey" and don't use the word "sexy" in your first communication. Try to be more original.-You can type in complete, reasonably correct sentences.-You are similarly educated or in a comparable profession.-We have similar interests.-You don't live too far away.-You don't message me repeatedly before I've had the chance to answer.These are not "strict" requirements by any means, just personal preferences meant to cut down a bit on the volume of communication. I'm really looking to meet the one right person :) The first date should be simple - a safe location and lots of time to talk. Let's see if you actually read this! I don't drink coffee, and as such would prefer the first date to not be a coffee date :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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