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About Me

I am a very complicated, intriguing, and intricate individual. More accurately, my life situation is complex. Now me on the other hand, I'm a very open-minded, laid back, impassioned, good-humored, and compassionate person. However, I'm still intricate and intriguing. After all, what's life without a little stimulating challenge;) That said, you're probably not going to want to get involved with me, because I'm either too much for you to wrap your brain around or you're not man enough to handle me. More specifically, handle my current situation. This is just my experience talking. I'm really not a**** individual. Confident, but never****. I don't find that attractive. I'm going to be straight forward here and tell you all what my life is exactly like; I just went through a big split (well not just, more like a year or so ago was the first time) with my fiance. It was on and off again for awhile because he is the father of my baby girl and I truly didn't want to have to split the family up. In the end however, it needed to be done because that's what was in the best interest of my little girl and I. I'm living back at home with my parents because that's what I have to do to get back on my feet & I am literally trying to pull myself up, dust myself off, and get back moving.... New place, New job, New life! I'm also here because my parents are both not in the best health and really need my help. This is why I say I'm complicated because I'm honestly at the beginning of everything again. I placed too much of my love & faith into one person because when I say I do I mean I do. I'm loyal to a fault. So this is the deal. If you can look past this and still want to see how things could be that's great. If you can't, I understand and honestly, I don't blame you one bit. I get it. I hope I'll actually find some real men on here who aren't just looking for a one time affair because that's not what I'm about & I can spot that right away so don't waste either one of our time please & thanks! Sorry if this sounds too blunt , but I'm so tired of playing games and would rather be honest than play the game. I have a lot of great qualities that you will see besides honesty & loyalty, but you will have to find out for yourself ;) I've already given too much away, lol! One more thing, please do not think for one minute because I've been so forward that makes me dramatic, it's quite the opposite really. I was able to identify the drama in my life and delete it! Now, I am drama free and love every minute of it! I simply put my cards on the table so you won't be surprised with my hand in the middle of the game, that's all... To me it really doesn't matter. Somewhere fun where we can get to know each other. Whether that be falling out of the sky from an airplane or cooking dinner together. I'm really not the drinking type so the bar scene is not for me

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Paige

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I'm pretty simple really. I don't like drama and I hate playing games. I have no need for either in my life. I have two beautiful little girls that mean everything in the world to me and if that's a problem, I'm not that girl for you. I'm not the girl that needs to have a man by my side 24 hours a day , if a guy is truly interested and wants to be part of my life he will put forth the effort to not only tell me but show me as well, as I will do the same, if you can't do that, what's the point of wasting the time. Anything else, just ask. Put some imagination into it

  • Ollie

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    Once again I'm updating my profile because this site reminds me of a bar at closing time more and more each day. If you aren't sure what that means let me explain: closing time hits the music turns off and everyone scrambles to find someone to take home regardless of shape, size, IQ, or even species.I am NOT looking for a fling. I wouldn't waste my time chit chatting online for a one night stand. It's much less work for me to go hit a bar like I said above. I am looking for a relationship. Again let me say I am looking for a relationship. I'm not delusional and understand that relationships don't come from texting, ***, and talking on the phone. They come from dating and getting to know someone from experiences. So if you're looking for a penpal, move on. Also if you can't handle me being a smart ass you can move one too. I'm not a complete **** like it must seem if you've read down my profile this far once you've got to know me. I'm very compassionate and loyal.Let's see first thing first about me. I'm tall for a girl 5'10! Which means in heels I'm about 6'0 or 6'1!! I love my height and heels so if you are over 6'2 that's a huge plus. I'm curvy too. I love my job and my coworkers they make it an new experince everyday and I do look forward to going to work everyday.I'm from Upstate NY and moved here abut 12 years ago. I really love the view when you get out of the Fort Pitt tunnels I'm sure I'll never get over it, it takes my breath away every time.I enjoy sports, love playing volleyball and love watching baseball. I'll really watch about any sport, except maybe golf I can't watch that for long periods. I also watch a lot of History and Discovery channel shows. I endulge in reality TV but I'd rather watch something educational than some reality crap.Family and friends are super important to me. You can ask any of them and they'd tell you I'd give them the shirt off my back no questions asked. It you took the time to read this far down, thanks!Hmm anything else just ask. I think sometimes I'm super boring but I'm okay with that. I did the whole going out every weekend to different bars and clubs in my 20's and I'm done with it. I still love going to a bar every so often and would never ever turn down a chance to dance but I'm not into stumbling around the South Side anymore. First dates are just so nerve racking! Coffee probably? Drinks? Maybe something goofy like bowling, really whatever is decided upon after getting to know each other.

  • Edra

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    Love to have fun but pretty down to earth at the same time, energy healer. I\'m looking for someone who likes to have a good time, you have to be smart sexy and funny, and we can have a ball.

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