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Alisa, 33

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About Me

I am looking forward to meeting new friends and gaining new interest and hobbies. I have not met many people since being here and have found it a lil difficult to just go somewhere and meet people. So I'm here with hopes to find friends or maybe even that special someone. Who knows?? I am in a point of my life that I'm tired of the games and the guessing if the other person is serious or not. I truly want to find someone to spend my time with even though I stay pretty busy with work, school, gym and my daughter. I find myself wishing I had someone to share those special moments with. I am very athletic and could call the gym my second home. I am very dedicated towards my fitness goals. I have been in the military for 8 years and I'm very career oriented. I have two children. My daughter is 15 and lives with me. My son is 9 and lives with his father. They are my everything! They are the reason I push myself to do better every day. I love to have fun when ever I can. I'm not a smoker at all, but I do drink socially. I listen to all kinds of music but I guess I mostly like hip hop and r&b. I love to dance and especially love to dance to Latin music. I have tattoo's and want more. I am very outgoing if I know you or once someone speaks to me, but not really a person to spark up conversation with people I don't know. I really don't have a preference but would like to do something that allows me to get to know that person. See if there is a connection and if we are on the same page in life. Dinner somewhere that is casual and has a patio where we can talk for a while. Maybe go for ice cream. Ice cream makes everything better....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Barabara

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I am a very complicated, intriguing, and intricate individual. More accurately, my life situation is complex. Now me on the other hand, I'm a very open-minded, laid back, impassioned, good-humored, and compassionate person. However, I'm still intricate and intriguing. After all, what's life without a little stimulating challenge;) That said, you're probably not going to want to get involved with me, because I'm either too much for you to wrap your brain around or you're not man enough to handle me. More specifically, handle my current situation. This is just my experience talking. I'm really not a**** individual. Confident, but never****. I don't find that attractive. I'm going to be straight forward here and tell you all what my life is exactly like; I just went through a big split (well not just, more like a year or so ago was the first time) with my fiance. It was on and off again for awhile because he is the father of my baby girl and I truly didn't want to have to split the family up. In the end however, it needed to be done because that's what was in the best interest of my little girl and I. I'm living back at home with my parents because that's what I have to do to get back on my feet & I am literally trying to pull myself up, dust myself off, and get back moving.... New place, New job, New life! I'm also here because my parents are both not in the best health and really need my help. This is why I say I'm complicated because I'm honestly at the beginning of everything again. I placed too much of my love & faith into one person because when I say I do I mean I do. I'm loyal to a fault. So this is the deal. If you can look past this and still want to see how things could be that's great. If you can't, I understand and honestly, I don't blame you one bit. I get it. I hope I'll actually find some real men on here who aren't just looking for a one time affair because that's not what I'm about & I can spot that right away so don't waste either one of our time please & thanks! Sorry if this sounds too blunt , but I'm so tired of playing games and would rather be honest than play the game. I have a lot of great qualities that you will see besides honesty & loyalty, but you will have to find out for yourself ;) I've already given too much away, lol! One more thing, please do not think for one minute because I've been so forward that makes me dramatic, it's quite the opposite really. I was able to identify the drama in my life and delete it! Now, I am drama free and love every minute of it! I simply put my cards on the table so you won't be surprised with my hand in the middle of the game, that's all... To me it really doesn't matter. Somewhere fun where we can get to know each other. Whether that be falling out of the sky from an airplane or cooking dinner together. I'm really not the drinking type so the bar scene is not for me

  • Lashay

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I love music.. pretty much all types. I love to sing! You can call singing my most popular passion, as well as playing guitar. I have been teaching myself how to play. I own a black Fender Stratacoustic... Its HOT! I love dancing and most of all laughing! I love the outdoors, fixing things, power tools, and Monster Trucks! I am very much a tomboy and love getting dirty. I will say this... The best date I have ever been on I was picked up by a Dump truck.. Fun Fun!

  • Sherah

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    Well, I am single again. Met a guy off here beginning if the year, thought I had finally found love but as it turns out it was only one sided...I don't want someone who is looking for something casual or temporary...I want to fall in love with someone who loves me back...I want someone who wants a family and has something to offer...I want a partner. **i don't discriminate against people based on race, if your a decent honest guy, I don't care if your black, white or whatever** I love music, it's an absolutely amazing connection that I feel with music. I love to sing, and write. I spend my days working on the phone and then being mom. That's my most important job. I take it very seriously. I love to cook, although I'm not a fan of cleaning. I also enjoy movies as long as they aren't horror movies.I am a customer service rep and I make fairly good money. I enjoy my job, actually I LOVE my job! If you want to know more just ask.So apparently since I am a plus sized girl that means I am supposed to hate myself and dream of being skinny? I am sorry, but that is simply not my style. I also do not believe that just because I am heavy it means that I am not allowed to have standards in who I date. If you are NOT interested in a confident, sexy, fat girl then please - click the little X at the top right. If you are looking for someone who is ghetto, again - click the X. If you are not self sufficient - ie, you have your own place, have a car, make more than minimum wage, etc. No offense - but I am not looking for someone else I have to take care of. I have 2 children, I have no intentions of dating a third. If you have kids, thats cool. If you dont take care of them, thats not cool at all. If you smoke weed EVERYDAY, or use any other type of illegal drug - click X. Say what you want - its illegal, whether you believe its a drug or not is irrelevant to me. Im not interested in people who put smoking weed above taking care of their other financial responsibilities....occasional use is fine No I am not looking for a man to take care of me. If you expect a woman to be at your beck and call - I am not your girl. I work full time and I really do love my job. I have no intentions of becoming a house wife. With that said, I am the kind of woman that will cater to her man. I believe in keeping him happy in every way. I do not get headaches every night...I like to make sure that he doesnt need to seek anything elsewhere.I LOVE FOOTBALL! I am a Raiders fan. But I watch every game. If you already have a wife/girlfriend please leave me alone. I do not have time for that crap. I am 30 years old, I am grown. If your in a relationship that makes you wanna cheat then get the heck out of it. Do NOT message me for sex or to ask how big my chest is. Im not a slut, and no you cannot see a photo of my chest either. Please be respectful. Do not call me "Mommy" that is seriously creepy. I have no intentions of calling you Daddy either. I had a Dad, he passed away.Hmmmm If your the kind of guy who likes to date 3 or 4 girls at a time - im not your girl. No offense to what you do - if it makes you happy do it - but I have a tendency to get jealous. I am not overly possesive - but if your flirting with other girls Im just not interested. And if we meet, and your not interested anymore - have some balls and just tell me Im not your type...Well I think thats it. If your interested - send a message. I'm old fashioned, don't ask me to come to my house and watch movies, not a first date!! You don't have to buy me a fancy dinner or something but is it too much to ask for something romantic???

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